Meredith Wesley

Author: Unmasking Manipulation NOW AVAILABLE
Support for fighting against the guile of #manipulation & its relentless undertow.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

Unmasking Manipulation.........NOW AVAILABLE
A manual for seeing clearly to judge what to do about it

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[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

When good & noble things are twisted to serve evil ends, they cease to be valuable. So, under a #narcissist, faithfulness, patience, trust, hope, & selflessness feel right, at first, until you realized they have been twisted to feed an insatiable ego.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

#Narcissists have no problem spending all the trust you have in them. And then some...because they have been busy securing your services in far more sinister ways.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@FRibersson Any game with a narcissist is going to cost you. Win or lose. Period.
And...everything is a game to a #narcissist.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@CoachElizabethS A con artist of the worst kind, for they're out to rob you not only of your money but of your heart, mind, strength, soul, and dignity too.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@WorththeWar Greater love is not giving a person what he wants but what he needs.
#Narcissists need boundaries. Stanch ones.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

#Narcissists are determined to flood your thoughts with themselves- if not with delight, then with terror.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

Anyone who requires your loyalty without earning your trust means only to control you. Beware.

#narcissists

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

With a #narcissist, manipulation starts where the illusion ends.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

#Narcissists are people who have their cake and eat yours too.

[Elizabeth Shaw - Overcoming Narcissist Abuse. @CoachElizabethS]

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[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@DrEmmaKatz If people can blame the victim, they feel safe, because it's not their problem, not a danger to the general population. Or worse, a not a personal responsibility to fight for.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@AimTrue7 Perfect was the standard. Beyond perfect, really, because the blame ALWAYS came. The bar ALWAYS rose. The consequences were ALWAYS harsh.
It's a hard mentality to shake, in the midst of everything else we have to fight...I say, let it ride awhile.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@FRibersson Inference & suggestion are favorite tools of a #narcissists. No one can nail them down that way...
But that doesn't mean we have to find an airtight argument against it, just enough vision to see the end result & WALK AWAY.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

Ask if someone energizes you, drains you, or is neutral.

[Narcissistic Support @narcsupport101]

As you evolve and grow, the same rules won’t apply. The same stagnant people of your toxic past won’t fit into the new

#mindset #psychology #NarcissisticAbuse #psychologicalabuse #mentalhealthawareness

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@FRibersson I'm finding that they key in on the fundamental lies you personally believe about yourself and then keep telling you those lies in a 1000 little, subtle ways. The purpose: to wear you down completely while retaining their innocence.

[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@AndrewCicchett1 When your best supporters end up undermining your freedom, all DOES feel lost.
Keep fighting anyway.

[Living with Trauma & Dissociation @RhiaCrewe]

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[Meredith Wesley @MeredithWesley3]

@LeavingNo The objective of all a #narcissist's tactics is to have their cake and eat your too.