Okay. I'm ready to talk about this.
It was the worst month of my life. Also ironically the greatest blessing god has ever given me.
Last month I was held in the Cayman Islands facing 15 years in prison.
The charge: illegal firearm importation. Here's what happened. More importantly what I learned.
Short answer: no. I haven't been smuggling guns.
In the States I legally carry a gun on me at almost all times for self defense. Part of this is ensuring I am trained.
Hence why I routinely go to the range to shoot. When I do I pack the firearm I intend to use in in a backpack.
Last month I was in a giant rush to make a private flight and didn't fully check my backpack before leaving. In it was a small firearm I missed.
It was discovered when I went through immigration.
At first I assumed I'd just be sent home.
Then my wife did some quick research. She pointed out the minimum sentence for importing a gun is 15 years. The police who showed up confirmed it.
To say I nearly pissed my pants is an understatement.
This was completely my fault. I'm an idiot. The point of this post isn't to blame or complain about anything. The laws there are fair. I'm a grown man capable of checking his bag before flying.
The point is: for three weeks on the island (on bail), I got to take a long hard look at my life.
I've built a high net worth and a company I love, with people I love working with. I have a beautiful wife who is my best friend. I do whatever I want all day every day. My parents are alive and I get to see them almost every week.
Still, despite all this, I often wake up annoyed I haven't done enough with my life. Asking myself "is this it?" In fact I'm pissed half the time, feeling I can do better.
Which is ironic. I made $20,000 a year in the military. If you'd told me then I'd achieve a 9 figure net worth and all the above, I would've assumed I'd consider my life a dream.
The twist truly hit me on the island as I watched everything I worked hard for in my life held at "gunpoint". Pun intended. Everything I worked so hard to get — poof. Didn't matter for shit.
The way the law works there are simple : if you can't prove it was an accident, the minimum is 15 years.
It became glaringly obvious. Not only was I an absolute idiot who couldn't pack his own bag. I'd also become a fool who couldn't enjoy the blessings I already had.
I'd taken all the people in my life and the success totally for granted. Blind. Blind. Blind.
Nothing like a 20-year potential sentence to make you realize: waking up with fun stuff to work on, then chilling on the couch reading with your wife at the end of the day — that's about as good as it gets.
I should be euphoric 24/7.
To go from having it all, to potentially not even having the option to piss and shit when you want — that's a wake up call if there ever was one.
Luckily, the Caymans is a fair place. I was found under exceptional circumstances during my trial. AKA the judge and the courts reviewed the case and agreed it was an accident.
I still love the island. It's probably my favorite place to vacation. Just check your luggage before you go. Ha.
My point is this: be present. Enjoy your life. One day something could happen — even by complete accident — and yoink it all away.
I have so many friends who'll read this and by all definition live a "dream life" — and yet are dissatisfied just like I was. If anything this is the default for most successful men. Not the exception.
I'm writing this to help you stop.
It took god slapping me across the face with my own ignorance to see it. It was painful and scary. Dark.
But honestly, it was the greatest blessing I've ever received. I'm writing this from my office at home, giddy as absolute fuck about my life and everything I have the option to do today.
If anything, I'm sad about how much time I wasted feeling otherwise.
Don't be ignorant and stupid like me. You might not get the blessing of a 15-year prison threat in a foreign country to wake you up.
Wake up. Appreciate what you have now.
🚨🚨UPDATE 🚨🚨
It’s finally here!! 20+ minutes of Shai and OKC flopping, falling, and 50/50 calls that all coincidentally went their way, through the first 2 rounds of the 2026 NBA Playoffs.
We are finally EXPOSING these paper champs!! 👀🔥🔥
"They are a physical defense. Lu Dort, Alex Caruso and those guys will say if the refs dont blow the whistle its not a foul. we're playing
discipline tough defense without fouling."
So OKC is allowed to play physical defense but their opponent cant?
Never hated on GSW during their run. Even in real time. Only complaint was how stacked they got once KD went there. But that playstyle was beautiful and pushed the game forward
This shit OKC is doing is nasty to watch and a big reason why league viewership is crashing
@NBA You have clearly chosen the winmers of the 2026 championship. Why continue with playoffs? Just let the players get some rest, when the decision anyway has been made by the NBA
Today, Mastercard, @OndoFinance, Kinexys by @JPMorgan, and @Ripple successfully completed a landmark transaction connecting a public blockchain with interbank settlement rails.
Together, we’re laying the groundwork for 24/7 global markets that never close.
Alright man, when is the league going to fine Daigneault? This is very clearly coached behavior when the entire team goes out of their way to hurt opponents. Too bad Adam Silvers is gutless and spineless.
Jaxson Hayes and JJ Redick can’t believe it!!!
Shai jumps into a vertical Hayes, screams “uuugh” as if he were just tackled, flops/flails to the ground. Ref’s reward him free-throws.
What we are watching is DISGUSTING…….
I would not seek to provoke and alienate Europe if I were Israel. Europe has been very tolerant and supportive of Israel. But if Netanyahu wants to have a fight with Europe and be left with only the Trump government as their friends, this kind of rhetoric can surely achieve it.
Die Genehmigung der israelischen Regierung von über 750 neuen Wohneinheiten in israelischen #Siedlungen im #Westjordanland lehnen wir in aller Deutlichkeit ab. Der Siedlungsbau verstößt gegen das Völkerrecht. 👉 Zum ganzen Statement: https://t.co/VbUNyiCyWp
Gravely concerned by reports #Israel cabinet in April approved 34 new settlements in occupied West Bank – the highest number ever approved at one time. This continues the sharp upward trend of unlawful settlement building that extends & consolidates��Israel's annexation of occupied Palestinian territory.
Israel must immediately cease the establishment & expansion of settlements, & reverse its settlement policies by evacuating all settlers & ending the occupation of Palestinian territory.
This is what desperation looks like: Netanyahu is now gaslighting Europe by using the Holocaust as a guilt tool to excuse his mass murder and war crimes. The murderous motherfucker thinks the world is stupid. 😡👇