i’ve been thinking about how often we confuse chemistry for compatibility. they might make you laugh & entertain you through good conversation but do they make you feel seen, heard & appreciated? are you both on the same page when it comes to communication or emotional maturity?
when I tell someone they’ve hurt me, I never want it to cause offence - this is me revealing that I care about them. if your words and actions are able to hurt me, that means I care for you. if you don’t mean anything to me, you will never have the capacity to hurt me.