@Nutmegbunny9 We had quite a few in our family with December birthdays. So every summer we threw a group "unbirthday" party. That was when they had cake, balloons, ect.
@FoxNews Kids have to learn to behave in public. Thats true 100%. However, after 8pm your kiddo should be home in bed. Not squalling in a restaurant. Sometimes you have to go out and get a pack of diapers or diarrhea meds, but that shouldn't be a normal time for littles to be out.