@unrealzuri If It's in the nightclub, it's usually a lap dance that elevates from their, they usually don't give oral. These girls are drunk and dancing all night so they're usually pretty ready to go.
If go to her house, you ease into it a lot more.
@deenayaah What Americans are too dumb to know about population of "African Americans" is that they are an admixtured population. If you don't know what an admixtured population is then you shouldn't speak definitively or declaratively on a genetic population unless you are a dumb American.
Gen-Z women on college campus: Eat the rich. Empathy for the poor. Make homes affordable. DEI for minorities. Compassion for all races, genders, and orientations.
Gen-Z women on dating apps: Must be white. Must be 6’3”. Must be handsome. Must be rich. Must be a homeowner.
Mujer:
Me quiero quedar embarazada con 18 años.
“Arruinarás tus estudios de bachillerato.”
Me quiero quedar embarazada con 20 años.
“Arruinarás tus años universitarios.”
Me quiero quedar embarazada con 26 años.
“Perderás tu carrera laboral.”
Me quiero quedar embarazada con 31 años.
“Ya vas tarde para tener hijos.”
Me quiero quedar embarazada con 36 años.
“Embarazo de alto riesgo.”
Me quiero quedar embarazada con 40 años.
“Es probable que des a luz a un bebé con malformaciones.”
Sociedad:
“¿Por qué está disminuyendo la población?”
A mathematician who shared an office with Claude Shannon at Bell Labs gave one lecture in 1986 that explains why some people win Nobel Prizes and other equally smart people spend their whole lives doing forgettable work.
His name was Richard Hamming. He won the Turing Award. He invented error-correcting codes that made modern computing possible. And he spent 30 years at Bell Labs sitting in a cafeteria at lunch watching which scientists became legendary and which ones faded into nothing.
In March 1986, he walked into a Bellcore auditorium in front of 200 researchers and told them exactly what he had seen.
Here's the framework that has been quoted by every serious scientist for the last 40 years.
His opening line landed like a punch. He said most scientists he worked with at Bell Labs were just as smart as the Nobel Prize winners. Just as hardworking. Just as credentialed. And yet at the end of a 40-year career, one group had changed entire fields and the other group was forgotten by the time they retired.
He wanted to know what the difference actually was. And he said it wasn't luck. It wasn't IQ. It was a specific set of habits that almost nobody is willing to follow.
The first habit was the one that hurts the most to hear. He said most scientists deliberately avoid the most important problem in their field because the odds of failure are too high. They pick a safe adjacent problem, solve it cleanly, publish it, and move on. And because they never swing at the hard problem, they never hit it. He said if you do not work on an important problem, it is unlikely you will do important work. That is not a motivational line. That is a logical one.
The second habit was about doors. Literal doors. He noticed that the scientists at Bell Labs who kept their office doors closed got more done in the short term because they had no interruptions. But the scientists who kept their doors open got more done over a career. The open-door scientists were interrupted constantly. They also absorbed every new idea passing through the hallway. Ten years in, they were working on problems the closed-door scientists did not even know existed.
The third habit was inversion. When Bell Labs refused to give him the team of programmers he wanted, Hamming sat with the rejection for weeks. Then he flipped the question. Instead of asking for programmers to write the programs, he asked why machines could not write the programs themselves. That single inversion pushed him into the frontier of computer science. He said the pattern repeats everywhere. What looks like a defect, if you flip it correctly, becomes the exact thing that pushes you ahead of everyone else.
The fourth habit was the one that hit me the hardest. He said knowledge and productivity compound like interest. Someone who works 10 percent harder than you does not produce 10 percent more over a career. They produce twice as much. The gap doesn't add. It multiplies. And it compounds silently for years before anyone notices.
He finished the lecture with a line I have never been able to shake.
He said Pasteur's famous quote is right. Luck favors the prepared mind. But he meant it literally. You don't hope for luck. You engineer the conditions where luck can land on you. Open doors. Important problems. Inverted questions. Compounded hours. Those are not traits. Those are choices you make every single day.
The transcript has been sitting on the University of Virginia's computer science website for almost 30 years. The video is free on YouTube. Stripe Press reprinted the full lectures as a book in 2020 and Bret Victor wrote the foreword.
Hamming died in 1998. He gave his final lecture a few weeks before. He was 82.
The lecture that explains why some careers become legendary and others disappear is still free. Most people who could benefit from it will never open it.
@gettingleanbro That's why women are biologically designed to have a lot of sexual stamina and have multiple orgasms while men ejaculate quickly and have penises designed to pull other men's sperm out of a vagina. We probably evolved for thousands of years where women were constantly gang fucked
@mango91834@BaneThe76451 I guarantee right now you live in america, I'll bet my next paycheck you live in the US. The fact that you view it as 'resort to'. Overseas if you go to New Zealand it's just something that people do. Please challenge yourself to be something more than a dumb American
@alexmir249224@BaneThe76451@BadShipAdvice As a Pagan, this what you're saying makes a lot of sense. The idea of shame is not present in the Pagan faith. If she wants to be a Srx Worker girl who am I to stop her?
Russia has reindustrialized and retrofitted its society for perpetual war. They are teaching children to hate, to die for the motherland, and also how to kill with modern weapons. Only total defeat will destroy this virus, and it begins with victory for Ukraine.
When Trump was in Berlin for his first state visit with Angela Merkel he asked the secret of her great success.
Merkel told him you have to have intelligent people around you.
"How do you know if someone is intelligent?" asked Trump.
"Let me demonstrate." She picked up the phone, called Wolfgang Schäuble and asked him a question, "Mr. Schäuble, he’s your father's son but not your brother. Who is it?"
Without hesitation Schäuble answered, “Quite simply, it's me!"
"You see," Merkel told Trump, "this is how I test a person’s intelligence."
Thrilled, when Trump flew home he called Mike Pence and asked him the same question. ”He’s your father's son, but is not your brother. Who is it?"
After much back and forth, Pence said,
“I have no idea, but I’ll try to find out the answer by tomorrow!"
Of course Pence couldn’t figure it out and decided to seek advice from former President Obama, so he called him and said, “Mr. Obama, it's your father's son, but is not your brother. Who is it?"
Obama answered, “Easy, it's me!"
Happy to have found the answer, Pence called Trump and said triumphantly, "I have the answer, it's Barack Obama!"
Trump raged and shouted, "No, you jackass, it's Wolfgang Schäuble!"