“In love did He bring the world into existence; in love does He guide it during this its temporal existence; in love is He going to bring it to that wondrous transformed state,…
Both the victim and the rapist have committed horrible atrocities incomprehensibly far beyond rape in the eyes of God.
If the victim loses her drive to pursue truth and goodness from the crime done to her, it's tragic but she may not for the rest of her life and beyond either.