Undermined life skill: Knowing when someone's advice is actually about them, not you. Your divorced friend warning you about marriage. Your broke uncle sharing investment tips. Your unhappy parent giving career guidance. They're not offering wisdom, they are revealing their regrets. Once you understand projection, you stop letting lost people lead you.
Learn to listen for wisdom, not for wounds. Most advice is just someone else trying to heal through your life choices.
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I'll always remember the tweet that said; "You have a higher chance of making money of your own than finding a man who would give you money. Unlearn the desire for a financial saviour".