@eduekansime if other people from different tribes can be proud of their accent and are not shamed for sounding or speaking their english with some innotation, then i see no reason why i should be ashamed of mine.
I just want my whole nervous system to finally rest in 2026. I want my heart to stop racing every day, I want to get out of that constant fight-or-flight mode, and I just want real peace. I’m begging for a year where my spirit can breathe, my mind can slow down, and my life finally makes sense along with the people that’s in it.
I met someone who used to feel everything — people’s moods, silence, even tension that wasn’t hers.
I asked how she stopped carrying emotions that didn’t belong to her.
She said:
“I stopped confusing awareness with responsibility.”
She said she still notices everything — the shift in tone, the change in energy
but now she takes a breath before deciding if it’s hers to hold.
“Not everything you sense needs to stay,” she told me.
“Some feelings are meant to pass through, not live in you.”
You would think you don’t know how to sing until you have a baby at home.
Then all of a sudden you would turn to singer, songwriter, music composer and choir master.
Babies don’t know which one is off-key or falsetto. As long as they can hear any singing, they’re happy.
God bless every parent out there!
May God send you comfort friends, amen.
The ones that understand you, the ones that hear Him when He tells them about you / your current situation,
The ones that GENUINELY just want to see you smile with them till the day y’all serve time here, the ones He tailored for you, amen. ☮️
daughters are not punishment.
harm will not befall them
so that their fathers can learn.
it will not happen to the women in his life
it will happen to him.
if he did not feel empathy after all women go through in this world, he will not feel it if it happens to his daughter.
i've seen people say, "i know the sweetest christian girl who still lives with her parents and is so submissive and she can't find a husband" and the thing is....most men looking for a "submissive wife" don't want a woman who is already submissive. they want to make her submit.