Bro to Bro,
A woman doesn’t come back because you get better at begging.
She comes back when something about the way you approach her changes, and she can actually feel the difference.
But most men make one mistake that pushes her even further away.1/4
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I and my girlfriend have been together for 6 almost 7 years. We met in secondary school and have been together since year11. Last year we bought a house together and a dog shortly after.
A few months ago she met a French male whilst playing Gta, and added him as a friend. Since then she has spent less and less time with me and is on gta with this man almost every evening. They now speak to eachother daily in tiktok too.
We have had a conversation recently where she expressed she was 'numb' to everything lately (me, dog, work, family....'everything') and that she feels she hasn't done anything with her life. She said that playing GTA with this man is the only thing she isn't 'numb' towards
I confronted her a few days ago and asked if she liked this man too which she just laughed and said no, then played with him again that evening.
My suspicions have been growing to the point I had to look through her phone and found these messages.
What do I do?
I want a man whose word means something. If he says he'll call, he calls. If he makes a promise, he takes it seriously. If he knows something bothers me, he doesn't keep doing it just to prove a point. I want to relax in my relationship because I trust him, not because I've stopped caring.
Three years ago, I poured my entire retirement savings of $85,000 into a high-yield agricultural investment fund managed by a charismatic financial consultant named Julian.
He wore tailored Italian suits, hosted quarterly gala dinners for investors at luxury hotels, and presented audited financial statements bearing stamps from reputable accounting firms.
The initial quarterly dividends arrived like clockwork, depositing directly into my account and convincing me to reinvest my capital along with funds borrowed from my sister.
When I tried to withdraw a portion of my portfolio to cover emergency medical expenses for my aging father, however, my online transfer request was suddenly flagged as "pending verification."
When I visited Julian’s downtown corporate office the following morning, I found the glass double doors locked,
the reception desk completely stripped of computers, and a notice of eviction taped to the mahogany entrance.
Good morning, lovely people
May God’s grace, favour and protection go with us this weekend. May we find peace, happiness and countless reasons to smile. Have a blessed weekend
On the verge of breakup
How to reply to such messages ? Relationship of 3 years BTW. Yeah we fight, but it is always from both sides. I really don't wanna break up. Idk, I'm also tired of fighting and all. It happens somehow and we cannot avoid it. But, breaking up is not the solution i believe.
Idk what to tell her or what to do myself.
Don’t Surrender to Your Circumstances. You may not control where you started, what people did to you, or every challenge standing in your way. But you can choose how you respond and what you do with the opportunities you have. Your circumstances may explain your struggles, but they don’t have to determine your destination.
Then the cycle begins.
The more one person asks for closeness, the more pressure the other person feels. The more the other person withdraws, the more insecure the first person becomes.
Both people may believe they are trying to save the relationship. But neither feels truly understood.
In relationship energy, the issue is often not who loves more. It is whether two people know how to stay connected when love becomes uncomfortable.