Kid Cudi says he's "done" with Ye after his comments about Virgil Abloh:
"The man that he has become, I just don't know that guy anymore." https://t.co/ddR4yalCNk
One of the rare(!) instances where you will find a woman giving legitimately sound approaching advice to men.
In this case, she attributes it to “decades of hoeing around”, which — you may not prefer hoes, BUT hoes ALWAYS have the most accurate takes on what works from men, due to heaps and heaps of EXPERIENCE!
Her tips (which mirror my own) include:
✅ Open with a non-genetic-looks-based compliment — i.e., not “you’re really cute” or “you’re really pretty” but something about her fashion choices, hair, book she is reading, etc.
✅ Alternately, open with a situationally relevant question — e.g., “How’s your night going?” “What brought you out today?” “Headed anywhere exciting?” etc.
✅ Approach in her eyesight to not spook her (and she did not mention this, but: aim to get her to look at 👀 you first BEFORE you speak to her. You can use pre-opening for this, such as a gentle nudge or tap or glancing at her face toward her eyes without making eye contact before she does)
✅ BE NORMAL. Which is GREAT advice. Although can be made better with “try to be a little bit interesting / flirt a bit, while still being very, very normal.”
✅ Ask her out if she’s feeling it; if she isn’t interested, move on. Standard advice here but good. Two additions I would make: ask her out on a HIGH POINT (e.g., she is laughing hard, excitedly sharing something, excitedly asking you about something, etc.) and do it in the MIDDLE of the conversation rather than waiting until the energy is dying off and the convo’s about to end.
Be chill, be normal, do what you can to REDUCE pressure on her during the open, and things go much, much smoother.
STOP doing Push/Pull/Legs in the gym.
If you want to become strong, explosive and fit, then follow the routine below:
(This will actually turn you into a superhuman)