Qubux

I can do the things that create success, and not deserve it but still get it anyway.

[Alh. Ibraheem 🫧 @seunadeyemmii]

Nope.
It's CONSIDERATION

[Zito @_Zeets]

Football will hardly give you direct joy from your team doing well. You must find it in rooting for the downfall of your enemies.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

The fact that there’s not one single woman on earth that can even bring herself to believe this…

Is enough reason to confirm that most Nigerian Men are eternally brainless.

[Carl @HistoryBoomer]

If you've spent half your life not knowing what the sunk-cost fallacy is, it's probably not worth learning it now.

[Max Bay @choice_fielder]

I've spent years struggling to prove that the sunk-cost fallacy isn't actually a fallacy. No sense in giving up now, though.

[🇻🇦 Fr Victor Feltes @StuffForSisters]

I've spent years working to disprove the so-called "sunk-cost fallacy" and I'm not going to stop now.

[Ken_ @cknze1]

A woman will get into a relationship with you and immediately start bombarding you with an ungodly amount of requests to trigger sunk cost fallacy on your part.

It’s also a major reason they fantasize being nothing but burdens to you.

Parents will always develop superior attachments to their special needs children over the others for no other reason than the greater emotional and financial investment required to maintain them.

You need to recognize this dynamic early on and shut it down immediately.

[Yehgha @yaygha]

You do what Nigerian men do: Rationalise the decision, convince yourself that is how marriage is, then tell all naysayers to "marry first"

Many men go into debt to marry their low quality Nigerian wife and that heavy sunk cost makes it incredibly difficult to cut their losses

[Yehgha @yaygha]

It's only victim blaming when it's a man victimising a woman

When it's a woman victimising a man it's "you deserve it"

That's how you know victim blaming is another made up nonsense used to shield women from accountability when they suffer the consequences of their foolishness

[AKIN-MADE @bibzyCarter]

"People" is doing some heavy lifting right there.

[Z @Zirachukwu]

I don't support cheating. But if you must, do it with someone who has just as much to lose.
Mutually assured destruction keeps everyone on their best behaviour.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Who remembered when Buhari was on his regular medical leave outside the country and Osinbajo took over for like a month and there was illumination in the country?

Stop asking what another person woud do differently if they were president. It makes you look foolish.

[Heinox @heinox64428]

Significant improvements? Does the west have to fall in order to create a clean environment? To properly use the budgets you already have? To trade with each other? To reform business and property laws? To build basic infrastructure and public services? To invest in your people?

[Ochuko @DavidAmhewroro]

it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself.

[Joseph 🕊️ @CaudilloXIV]

“white people stole our resources” what the fuck were you niggas gonna do with uranium?

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Life happens to people.

Being married does not make you a good person. It simply means somebody chose to marry you.

[Ibrahim @ibroraheem]

This community transformer racket has to stop completely. It is daylight robbery disguised as community self-help, and the regulatory double standard is sickening.

​Look at how the power sector works in Nigeria:

​When a community transformer blows up, the DisCo goes deaf. You write letters, make calls, and nothing happens. Six months down the line, residents are suffocating in darkness, small businesses are dying, and fuel prices are draining everybody's pockets.

​Out of sheer desperation, landlords gather, task every household 50k, 100k, or more, and scrape together 5 to 8 million Naira to buy a brand new transformer, buy heavy copper cables, and pay for poles.

​The moment that equipment is energized, the DisCo claims it as company property. They add it to their network balance sheet, and within two weeks, they start distributing Band A and Band B bills. If you do not pay, they disconnect you with the ladder leaning on the very pole you bought with your own sweat.

​How can a private, for-profit utility company take free capital equipment from struggling citizens, pay zero interest, give zero equity, and then charge those same citizens full price to use it?

​If NERC mandated that customers who pay upfront for meters under the MAP scheme must be refunded their money over time through energy credits, why does the exact same logic not apply to transformers?

​A meter costs 100k to 150k and you refund it via monthly energy units.

A transformer costs 6 to 10 million Naira funded by an entire street, and you pretend it was a charitable donation to a private entity?
​This injustice has to end.

​If a community is forced to step in and buy infrastructure because a DisCo failed its obligations, NERC should make automatic amortization mandatory:

​Every single household on that street that contributed to buying that transformer should have their meter credited with monthly energy units until the full cost of the asset, cables, and installation logistics is completely paid back.

​You cannot let private DisCos enrich their asset portfolios with crowd-funded community blood and then charge those same people premium tariffs for power. If DisCos want to own the asset, they must refund the people who paid for it.

[nil @nlqnlql]

Çocuk psikolojisinden anlamayanlar anne baba olursa böyle olur işte çocuklar sadece konuşarak değil beden dilleriyle de bize ulaşmaya çalışırlar mesela bu yavrumuzun beden dili anne ben dayak istiyorum diyo ama anlayan yok

[Nathan @OIuwatosin]

The best time to look for opportunities is when you do not need, or even want them yet.

I don’t know how, but people can almost always sense desperation and it subconsciously signals high risk, no leverage and low value

[Mithisa Motho @tafolaI8]

There are too many single mothers and divorcees for this to be true