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Just because a woman makes money doesn't mean the man is a leech.
Several truths can exist.
So here is the typical dynamic based on what I can observe in Nigeria today.
Both men and women work.
Often, men make more money. But also often, the only reason they make more money is because they are generally more productive and that is also because someone is actively handling the 'non productive' aspect of life for them. AKA wives.
Now, the reality will vary obviously.
But the percentage of women who do not work but are well provided for in today's world is literally minuscule.
Most women work.
Most women contribute their income to the family.
And that is in addition to all the other unpaid labour that they do.
I'm not sure if you get it.
But the concept of "winning bread" isn't just about the physical cash that is brought into the house either. It is also the work that would have been outsourced if the man didn't have a wife.
It is a running joke amongst my friends that "I need a wife" because often times, the wife makes it easier to save, as well as for the income in the household to go farther than it would because of the labour she brings which she is not paid for.
"Educate the girl child"
"Empowerment for the girl child"
Again, I ask. What is the benefit of the education and empowerment if *MAJORITY* of them still end up thinking like this?
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My Ex used 2by2 to pursue me to the third Street around 12.30am cos she was pregnant and I didn't want to beat her.
This same woman held my balls in front of the kids and threaten to burst it more than once.
She poured alligator pepper on my eyes as I came back from work.
She carried knife and said she will kill me in my sleep.
Yet when she left, she kept telling everyone who cares to listen that I have been beating her.
When I remember, it breaks my heart over again.
Their are devilish women and I lived with one for 5 years.
Some women are born devils