As you get older, you have to realize how important terms and conditions are. A lot of adults are suffering from unspoken contracts amongst each other while others are thriving in their relationships because they define them clearly.
Emotional intelligence isn't built by correcting emotions. It's built by connecting with them. Before children can recognize what they're feeling, someone has to notice. Before they can accept what they're feeling, someone has to validate it. Before they can regulate what they're feeling, someone has to help them through it. Children eventually learn to speak to themselves in the same way we first spoke to them. That's how emotional intelligence is passed from one generation to the next.
"The ability to think critically is the key to turning information into insight. And that ability, once fully formed, becomes the ceiling of understanding for the rest of a person’s life." https://t.co/V1bzZJN6wv
Most relationship issues come from living in your mind and not being able to let go of your mental version of someone else.
People change, and that’s your problem if you choose to live in the past and refuse to update your internal version of them.
Long-lasting relationships usually involve clear-minded people who know how to pay attention to the person that is right in front of them.
Childhood trauma often triggers anxiety in adulthood. But this anxiety doesn’t always manifest in the ways we expect and may lead to some surprising behaviors, starting with these. https://t.co/fdwF7XoYae
The wild sexual desire for each other that many couples feel when they first meet often dwindles as time goes on. But that's not necessarily a sign that intimacy is dead. Here's why. https://t.co/EMiIohFXk8
As-salāmu ʿalaykum wa raḥmatullāhi wa barakātuh.
Those who have completed Qāʿidah Nūrāniyyah are welcome to join us every Wednesday at 8:00 PM to continue progressing in their reading.
We will begin by reading the Qur’an before moving on to Madīnah Book 1, in shāʾ Allāh.
Everyone is welcome, and the class is free of charge.
بارك الله فيكم
Too many pple want relationship privileges without relationship responsibilities. Pple wants loyalty, honesty, reassurance, attention, & emotional support. Far fewer pple are willing to give those same things consistently. Relationships fail when both pple become experts at keeping score instead of taking responsibility. You can't demand what you're unwilling to provide.
Use social media to spread Tawhid, the Sunnah, and piety.
Avoid debating the foolish.
Don’t isolate yourselves in WhatsApp/Telegram groups.
That’s exactly what the people of falsehood desire.
And some of these groups become places where the seeds of Fitan are planted.