Sheen Alvin

Pressing on toward the goal.

[Eric @amerix]

Live within your means.

Be content with what you have.

Don't try to live other people's lives.

Don't borrow a loan to buy a car just because a neighbour has a car or because you want to impress people.

Don't buy an M-KOPA phone. Save and buy.

Be at peace with yourself.

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

Never sell what you inherited from your father, or what he gifted you,

• Land,

• House,

• Car,

• Laptop,

• a tool,

• a book,

He gave you because he values you.

If it becomes unusable, keep it as a souvenir and show it to your son.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

There are graduates who don't know how to write application letters.

I keep telling you the problem isn't employment. The problem is that a lot of you are unemployable.

• Poor writing skills.

• Zero comprehension skills.

• Self-entitlement and thinking you know better. "I am a Gen Z, nobody will tell me anything."

• Poor work ethic.

• Mama's boys, lazy, slow, chaotic, with zero emotional intelligence.

• No critical thinking skills.

• Absent communication skills. Zero selling skills. Poor interpersonal and intrapersonal skills.

• Zero ethical standards. Dirty. Unkempt hair. Ugly shoes. Poor grooming.

• Smelling of sweat early in the morning. Stinking underpants. Dirty socks.

• Betting, gambling, smelling of alcohol early in the morning.

• Masturbating and porn addiction.

• Zero time management skills.

• They can't return something where they picked it up from. They leave it there, expecting someone else to do it.

• Dirty environment. Dirty workspace. Chaotic. Papers, pens, mugs, spoons scattered on tables.

Then they expect 1 million in salary monthly.

If they are fired, they turn around and say,

"That place was toxic."

No, it wasn't toxic. It is you who was intolerable, malodorous and toxic.

No employer will tolerate you.

Start your business and see how far it will go when you employ such jokers.

You will suffer until you learn a lesson.

Do you think your mother will be covering you forever?

CHANGE or PERISH

[Eric @amerix]

When seeking online opportunities, aim to build a sustainable skill you can iterate on and scale over the long term for stable cash flow. https://t.co/U0ZmkbOogY

[Eric @amerix]

The most difficult task in the morning is waking up.

The next difficult task is making your bed.

Once you overcome these tasks in the morning, every battle gets easier during the day.

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

If you want to be a writer, read books.

If you want to be a good writer, read fictional books.

If you want to be an excellent writer, read ancient books.

If you want to be a mediocre writer, read newspapers.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

You're a man,

1. Never pose with alcohol.

2. Dress well, no matter the occasion.

[Eric @amerix]

This is called a HAEMODIALYSIS CATHETER.

It is for patients undergoing dialysis.

It is inserted into a patient's chest through the internal jugular vein.

The red port cannula is the arterial lumen that draws deoxygenated blood out of the patient's body and sends it to the dialysis machine for cleaning.

The blue cannula is the venous lumen that carries cleaned, filtered blood from the dialysis machine back into the patient's bloodstream.

This catheter stays in a patient's body for 6 - 12 weeks, or even longer, depending on medical decisions, before being replaced with a permanent fistula.

A healthy kidney filters your blood 400 times per day, while a dialysis machine does so only 2 times a week, for about 5 hours per session.

Dialysis patients have to arrive at the renal unit as early as 3 am, twice a week.

Not even a dialysis machine can replace the efficiency of a healthy kidney.

Therefore, take care of your kidneys.

#WorldKidneyDay

[Sheen Alvin @Qiptew]

@amerix Thank you Eric.

[Eric @amerix]

If you work for a MAN who supports, inspires and pushes you,

Then, be obedient and loyal to him.

Don't be like Icarus, who flew close to the sun trying to outsmart Daedalus.

Loyalty is rewarded slowly. It takes time.

Disloyalty is punished and leads to your downfall.

[Simons @Simon_Ingari]

2022: No salary increase
2023: No salary increase
2024: No salary increase
2025: No salary increase

2026 :
Employee: Please accept my resignation.
Boss: You’re doing great. Why are you resigning?

Employee: I accepted an offer with a 95% base salary increase and guaranteed yearly salary cycles as long as I meet my performance goals set by my manager.

48 hours later...

Boss: We will match the 95%, please stay, we need your work!
Employee: Unfortunately, it’s too late. Friday is my last day.

Leaders of organizations need to understand their teams’ motivation every month. Every employee is motivated by different things in different periods. Take care of your good employees before it is too late

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

Never trust a man with a weak handshake and fidgeting eyes.

He will betray you.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

BRO to BRO: When bro offers to work with you, be respectful and obedient. Bro invited you with a kind heart.

Don't allow greed and vengeance to make you backstab bro.

If you betray bro today, the universe will punish you tomorrow.

#ThursdayBro

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

As a man. Act poor. Act broke. Act like a useless man. Act like you can't afford bread until they find out you own a bakery. Have more than you show and speak less than you know.

[N.M.A @peculiarchichii]

As a man, You cannot lead a woman who is competing with you.

You cannot protect a woman who is undermining you.

Respect must exist before marriage.

it CAN NOT be negotiated after.

[Nnamdi Ignatius🎗️🇳🇬 @statesmanig]

@peculiarchichii Discernment is key. To be frank, we always attract who we are. The quality of what we attract depends on the mindset of the observer.

[N.M.A @peculiarchichii]

Men please choose a woman who already embraces conservative, traditional views on marriage like prioritizing family, respect for husband's leadership, commitment to lifelong fidelity.

Observe her behavior over time not just during dating excitement.

Does she respect her father?
Honor traditional roles in her family?
Avoid women heavily influenced by modern individualism or feminism, as these can lead to post-wedding shifts toward dissatisfaction with complementary roles.

It is very important that you Vet appropriately.

I’ve shared a few vetting Tips. You can find on my timeline with more tips to come.

Search and learn

[Eric @amerix]

HOW ART AND CREATIVITY BUILD A MAN'S MASCULINE PURPOSE:

Every man who embarks on the individuation process must nurture his anima.

The anima is the inner feminine dimension within a man's psyche.

It expresses a man's emotions, intuition, creativity, imagination, capacity to love, and his relationship with his unconscious.

The anima is in 4 levels:

1. Eve

2. Helen

3. Mary

4. Sophia

EVE and HELEN are the sexual and romantic levels where a man is lost in the illusion of feminine charm. This is where most men get stuck and become simps.

MARY is the spiritual level where a man sees women as spiritual beings capable of fulfilling his spiritual desires, or if not careful, a chaotic MARY is capable of obliterating him.

SOPHIA is at the advanced level. This is where a man sees the feminine as the inner truth. He sees a woman as a reflection of his deepest shadow, and if a woman doesn't match his inner truth, she is discarded immediately before he gets attached to her (Oneitis).

Gardening (flowers), writing poetry, learning a musical instrument, drawing, carving, designing textiles and culinary arts are examples of activities that connect you to your deepest, innermost shadow of truth.

Do you know why many men are unable to let go of a woman even when she is toxic?

It is because such men are terrified of their SOPHIA.

They are disconnected from SOPHIA, and that means they are disconnected from their unconsciousness.

Then, when a woman threatens to leave, the man is so terrified because she has handed him a mirror that reflects his hollow, wounded anima.

Wounds inside a man's anima can be traced from the EVE level, which is where a man depends on a woman for nutrition, survival and validation. The EVE archetype is basically his mother.

A wounded man depends on a woman to cook, launder, feed him and advise him. This is the mama's boy. A wounded boy. He can't live alone because he is terrified.

A lot of wounded men are wounded by their mothers.

How?

They were attached to their mothers from childhood to adulthood until the dependence left a wound in their psyche.

These men can't stand a rejection from a woman they admire.

They would cry, be depressed and would obliterate their lives because the depth of the EVE WOUND is so painful to bear.

What do we tell men who are depressed because of a heartbreak or a divorce to do?

• Journal

• Write a book

• Learn poetry

• Learn art and design

• Create a carving

• Plant flowers

• Go to the rural areas and do farming

All these are activities that connect deeply with your SOPHIA, the highest level in your anima archetype.

By mastering your anima, you take control of your frame, thereby preventing effeminate emotions from dominating your masculine desires.

To avoid being stuck to a woman like a tick on a cow, dig deeper into your SOPHIA and unchain yourself from the chains of oneitis.

Creation is an anima act.

Anima appears in activities that connect a man to nature, beauty, symbols, dreams, and creativity

#ManDay

[Simons @Simon_Ingari]

How to respect yourself at work:

1. Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
2. Don’t eat other people’s food more than they eat yours.
3. Never say more than necessary.
4. Apologize if you make mistake.
5. Set boundaries. Know when to leave.
6. Dress they way you should be addressed.
7. Take yourself seriously. Dont make fun of yourself.
8. Take the compliment. Don’t ever downgrade yourself.
9. When people disrespect you, comfront them right away.
10. Think before you talk. People value you from what comes out from your mouth.

Your self-respect should be mirrored in your workplace. Discover roles where your contributions are truly valued.

[Phannie A. Kwegah 🇰🇪 @MissKwegah1]

Family is a responsibility you have to shoulder gracefully. It is not a matter of choice. If you're living well in Nairobi as you parents struggle upcountry, you are a cursed being. If you find it easy paying rent for women in this city while your siblings cannot go to school because of lack of fees, you are cursed. If you find it easy housing other people but can't make room for a sibling who wants to come and improve their life in Nairobi, you are a wretched person. You will die a painful death. This is not just a normative standard as Africans. This is God's way. The Bible says honor your father and mother and you will live long. How do you honor your parents? Give them money. It doesn't have to be a million. Just give them anything that will make them utter those three golden words, "God bless you!" And blessed you will be.

Shalom🤝