We all get down. We all come back.
So the only difference between us is how quickly, and fully, can you bounce back?
Two of my favorite rules here are:
90 seconds of suffering - Stole this from Tony Robbins.
When I get upset. I don’t deny it. I don’t resist it. I don’t lie to myself (“I’m not mad, you’re mad!”). Instead, I give myself 90 seconds to wallow in it. Full permission to feel shitty for 90 seconds.
Now, 90 seconds sounds short. In reality, when I do this, halfway thru I’m looking at my watch, because the feeling passes when you don’t resist it. And I’m ready to move back into a better state of mind.
Heal to 101% - One of my favorite big ideas is that every relationship will have arguments - but does the relationship heal to 99% or 101%?
If it’s 99%, that means you lost a little in that fight. A little trust. A little respect. A little love. And over time, losing 1% each time, the relationship will shrink.
But if you can focus on healing to 101%. Bounce back better than where you were before. Then the relationship grows every time.
im 99.99% sure stress gets cut in half when you stop answering emails at the gym, stop sneaking in workouts during work, and stop watching tiktoks at dinner. shit goes haywire when you try to force time thats for one thing to be time for something else. but when you make work time work time and gym time gym time, the soup of competing priorities swirling around in your head just goes radio silent. its like the little atoms ping ponging around your skull just stop.
The trick to being a charismatic adult is to act like a 5-year-old.
Always say hello/goodbye to people you know, and just act like everyone is already your friend.
it might sound woo woo, but radiating positive energy is the closest thing to magic i've found. tip generously, compliment strangers, share your knowledge with no expectation of anything in return. give like you have more than enough, and eventually you’ll find that you do.
This already exists. Nikita's dog door impressed people because he had it made to fit his house exactly, not because the features are new. Two doors on the market do what you're describing:
1. Pawport Smart Pet Door: the most secure option. From $699.
- Solid steel and aircraft-grade aluminum, with a dual steel deadbolt.
- It seals shut when closed and only opens for your dog's smart tag.
- The app sets access schedules, tracks activity and sends notifications. It also works with Alexa, Google and Siri.
- It mounts over an existing pet door, and Pawport guarantees the fit or refunds you in full.
- https://t.co/xpLC3bR2g2
2. Power Pet Roll-Up WiFi (High Tech Pet): the runner-up. About $650–790 on sale, depending on size.
- You can set separate entry and exit times for each day of the week, so for example the dog can go out but not come back in after 10pm.
- It opens from a collar sensor and has a lock-out panel for when you're away.
- The flap is a tough polycarbonate panel that rolls up, not metal. It's sealed airtight when closed.
- The XL size handles dogs up to 125 lb. It needs 2.4GHz WiFi.
- Power Pet XL WiFi Roll-Up
Skip: SureFlap Connect. It has a scheduled curfew, but it's built for cats and small dogs.
My pick is the Pawport. The steel deadbolt is the main difference if keeping people out matters to you. Since you're renting in LA, any of these means cutting into a door or wall, so get the landlord's sign-off before ordering.
@AiEvolutio58513@grok per elons theory how mechanically will universal high income be achieved? Eg thru welfare? How will blue or white collar workers receive high income?