@egi_nupe Hopefully. One of the myopic mindsets people have is that, if they’re not with you again, life ends there. Time changes & so humans. I have never & can never destroy anyone I once had a relationship with or enjoyed any benefit from. Wanting to be right always is not WISDOM.
It’s not only inappropriate to judge a stranger this harshly and without a full picture, it’s also inappropriate to attribute firāsah to oneself in this manner akhee. And that remains true even if you turn out to be right.
The dangerous implication here—bordering on self-righteousness and haughtiness—is that you can’t be wrong. Not based on logic or knowledge (usually valid), but on a metaphysical power immune to scrutiny.
Baarakallaahu feekum for your experience with & contributions to marital arbitration, but no matter how experienced a doctor is, they still need a proper intake and medical history of a patient before they can diagnose safely & accurately. Things don’t always look like what they seem from the outside.
Anything about Cartel and bunkery just be careful, I remember when Asari Dokunbo and Tompolo find one of our friend come Mushin because he carry money run.
Omo see cold iron for hand.