If you want your relationship to last then you have to be overly considerate of your partner's feelings. Don't brush shit off because you don't feel the same way. If it's a big deal to them then it HAS to be a big deal to you. You should expect the same courtesy in return.
Someone treating you like you don't matter is all the closure you need. When they can go all day without checking on you, ignore what you said bothered you, and only show up when it benefits them, they already made your place in their life clear. You don't need one more conversation to understand it. The way they handled you was the answer.
crazy how peaceful life becomes when you decide you no longer have the energy to teach people how to appreciate you, respect you, respect your boundaries, treat you right, listen, communicate, resolve conflicts, honor agreements, be accountable, and have difficult conversations.
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
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IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE.
IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE
IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE.
IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE.
IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE.
IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE.
IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE.
IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE.
IM NOT YOUR SECOND CHOICE.