[CC] aku M28, baru kahwin setahun setengah (baru lagi la tu kan) and belum ada anak.
aku dengan bini aku jumpa masa degree sebab kami satu kelas, tapi aku tak pernah cakap dengan dia sebab dua2 introvert. so aku tak kenal betul2 sangat la dia ni before kahwin.
tapi lately... aku rasa bini aku ni comel sangat. semua benda yang dia buat comel gila. lagi2 kalau dia buat benda tu randomly, aku rasa macam nak simpan dia dalam poket pastu bawak kemana-mana.
kalau dia buat salah, aku tak sanggup nak marah sebab muka dia comel. kalau boleh aku nak tengok dia depan mata aku 24 jam. aku tak pernah bercinta before kahwin, so aku tak reti nak explain perasaan ni macam mana tapi is it normal to feel this way? to be obsessed with your partner? ni ke perasaan jatuh cinta?
sekarang aku risau sebab next month aku kena outstation sebulan, bukan risau takleh urus diri sendiri tapi risau macam mana aku nak tidur tak tengok muka dia before tidur🥲
doakan aku dimurahkan rezeki supaya aku boleh bagi hidup bini dan future anak aku selesa😊 —
see anon ni pun dah kahwin setahun setengah tapi dia consider baru kahwin. haritu korang bash aku bila aku cakap aku baru kawin hm cedeh
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Jangan tegur org time makan. Either marah atau nak melawak like banyaknya makan, wow boleh hbs ke bla bla whatsoever. Kdg kau tak tahu itu first meal dia of the day, kdg dia tgh stress eating. Kita tak tahu. Makanan tu rezeki. Be polite in front of it.
Date someone who handles conflict with maturity. Someone who lets you know when they are annoyed with you instead of bottling up inside. Someone who treats you with respect, even when they are struggling not to scream at you. Someone who is willing to make compromises, because of love.
[CC] Aku dari family b40 kawin dgn wife dari family t20. Masa first time nk jumpa family wife tu masa raya so semua family ada, cuak gila bila sampai nampak kereta mahal bersusun. Aku sampai tergagap gagap berpeluh. Alhamdulillah semua layan baik.
After kawin, banyak cultural shock antaranya rumah wife aku 24/7 boleh on aircond. Kalau rumah aku, mahu kena sebat dgn mak. Wife aku takde kg, first time aku bawak balik kg, dia punya excited kejar habis ayam kt kg aku.
Saja aku post sini sbb nk cakap terima kasih kat family wife aku terima aku seadanya & wife aku terima family aku seadanya. Sanggup susah senang & mula dari bawah dgn aku.
Wife aku selalu baca curious cat kau, hiburan untuk dia. Hari hari dia bercerita hari ni kisah apa pulak, mcm mcm.
Aku cuma mintak korang doakan aku rezeki lebih untuk wife aku, semoga perkahwinan kiteorang sampai bila bila. Aku just nak happy kan wife aku—
yih comel!!!! semoga korang satu family bahagia hingga ke jannah🥰
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I used to think communication was a key until i realized comprehension is. You can communicate all you want with someone but if they don’t understand you or refuse to understand, communication is useless.
Avoiding conflict ruins relationships. The issues you have won’t go away. They'll only come back stronger, when you least want them to. Conflict avoidance is a trauma response deriving from a childhood in which conflict led to abuse. Heal so you can speak up and nurture intimacy.
Your partner coming to you about something you’ve done wrong isn’t a personal attack. It’s a healthy sign they value the relationship & want to make it work – it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity. That's commitment. That's love.
When children grow up and become young adults, the entire journey is worth sharing and indeed a blessing, It’s a new beginning of a whole new experience to realise their full potentials and a lifelong connection.
Over the years we as parents have been there to offer our support and guidance, working through the common issues and dilemmas to develop and maintain a close bond with our children. It requires thoughtfulness and empathy
We need to create a strong family harmony and more importantly the enduring connection with the almighty before they spread their wings to all corners of the world. Sharing once upon a time my three sons Khazin, Khalis and Khair and today as grown up adults.
It’s a red flag if your partner becomes very mean to you when you guys are fighting. It is quite important to have a partner that can still be kind to you during arguments and fight. You should still feel the love even in chaos and during fights. A kind partner is key!
you deserve someone who can’t wait to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know you and fall in love with you. please stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant and indecisive. it’s so much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.
soft spoken man will always be my top tier /one of my standards. im a softhearted person. i hate when someone raises their voice at me. imagine being with someone who will never raise his voice even when he's so mad or frustrated😄 LITERALLY ALWAYS BE THE STANDARDS