Men,
Finally,
When you leave a bad marriage,
โ Don't ignore your children.
If the mother has blocked access, then it is fine.
Leave them alone.
But,
โข Open a bank account for them
โข Save money there monthly
โข Pay fees directly to the school account
โข Keep all the receipts of the expenses and bills paid
Avoid drama.
Avoid legal tussle.
Chaos and drama will traumatize them further.
These children are not as ignorant as you think.
They are also observing and taking notes.
In the future, when she tells them you were a "dead-beat,"
โ the receipts are there to tell your story.
For now, walk out and have peace of mind.
All shall be well.
Chin up towards God.
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