in my 20’s I’ve learnt that when people know they’ve sabotaged chances to have a healthy connection with you and don’t possess the maturity or humility to repair it, you’ll be painted as the problem to others because they can’t admit their faults. and you have to let them do that
imagine having a partner who understands your home situation, a partner who's not easily attracted by others bodies or faces, a partner who says
"no, i have my partner, and i can't cheat on her/him." a partner who supports you to reach your aims and a partner who makes your life happy and valuable and treat you like a ques and would do anything to prevent you from getting hurt.
when you start focusing your energy on getting better, you start feeling better, you start looking better, you even start attracting better & everything changes