Life’s a Beach

“Life’s challenges are not supposed to paralyze you; they’re supposed to help you discover who you are.”
- Bernice Johnson Reagon

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@5By5Creativity @emkenobi @Cornell I have been able to verify everything except for the parent son relationship. I’ve seen the speculation but nothing 100% verified.

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@5By5Creativity @emkenobi @Cornell Where did you find this?

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@SophiaLee42 @emkenobi Someone needs to stuff him back into his middle school locker.

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@TooHot2Handle26 💔

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@TooHot2Handle26 Smh.

Im sorry.

Im so fucking tired of this shit.

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

“Not all guys…”

[Adrian 🐧💙 @ChulitoX0X]

I just found a tiktok page where they feed guys hot dogs through a glory hole…. I’m scared

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@TooHot2Handle26 I really need to get off the grid.

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@TooHot2Handle26 On the phone for the last hour talking to a friend who is being stalked.

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Before the Cornell 7 news broke, I did that thing asking AI to put you in a tv show, movie & comic. I did it with 3 different AIs.

I sense a trend.

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

Watching them out themselves has something else.

[Kelley Belle @Hells75Belle]

I don’t owe anyone access to any of my trauma, but I am using this opportunity to block the living shit out of so many men.
So…. Thanks ?

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@TooHot2Handle26 I picked up on that bit of subtlety on your part.

No judgment here

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@TooHot2Handle26 Some do.

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@TooHot2Handle26 Relationships always require taking a risk.

I would do it again.

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@TooHot2Handle26 It’s a song I relate to

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

@_wej01 This just seems like it should be instinctive and natural for a guy, but we all know that it’s not.

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

I will write the essay for you.

[Life’s a Beach @Su4fsUp]

I’m a guy so the best I can do here is nod and say “I get it”, but the truth is, there is no way for me to fully understand how this affects the victim and survivor.

What I do not understand is how men can stand around and allow this to happen.

I would’ve killed somebody.

[Warren @swd2]

When we hire a DA we should expect this person to be aware of basic victim thought processes. He should know this more than most:

"Right after a frightening or overwhelming sexual encounter, many people do not produce a clean, complete, legally tidy story. The nervous system often shifts into survival mode: fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. Numbness, dissociation, and a flattened affect can make the night feel unreal or fragmentary. Details that later seem central—who did what, whether they could have left, how drunk they were—may not be available in language yet.

Self-preservation shapes the first telling. People minimize, use neutral words, or emphasize their own choices because that can feel safer than naming rape. Admitting total loss of control can feel more threatening than saying “I went along.” Shame, fear of not being believed, fear of social or legal blowback, and loyalty to people they still know can all push an account toward “it was messy but I agreed.” Memory is state-dependent: intoxication plus stress often yields islands of recall rather than a timeline.

None of this proves a later lawsuit is true or that an early statement was false. It explains why first reports are often incomplete, why wording can change as someone leaves shock and gets language for what happened, and why investigators trained in trauma treat early statements as starting points, not the whole file. Trauma can distort, omit, and delay. It does not, by itself, rewrite the legal elements of consent."

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