My question was: how much are you willing to pay? Finishing this is a service that only a skilled minority can actually accomplish. I treat this exactly like an artist taking commissions. time is money, and you are paying for specialized expertise. My time and skill aren't free.
When a man earns money, he dreams of giving his wife the best life.
When a woman earns money, she feels like she doesn't need a husband anymore.
This is true to some extent.
Would you say the things you say to yourself to a close friend?
If the answer is no, itโs time to trade self criticism for self compassion. You can't punish yourself into a better version of yourself.