there’s a quote i love that says ‘there are years that ask questions and years that answer those questions’ and i hope this year is the year that answers. 🤍
Keep things to a minimum with people this year. Dont over share your business! Whatever you’re going through, pray about it!! & any plans you make, stick to them, even if that means isolating.
I am a very warm person I’d like to think. But the inverse is equally cold. My inverse is as cold as my warmth.
So when people treat me bad and I turn on the cold. They get shocked. Like how? I must be sweet, warm cutie patootie when I’m treated badly? Surely not. See me.
List of places I won't be going this year:
• The extra mile
• Above & Beyond
• Back & forth
• Out of my way
• All out for people
• Where I’m not invited
So help me God.
Heard the quote “You worry too much for someone who God has never failed”, and this is your reminder to put your trust in God even when it seems difficult.
Take this into 2026 remembering that His plans are to prosper you, not to harm you - to give you hope and a future🫶🏽
DO NOT MAKE LIFE DECISIONS BASED ON YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND. Do not stay close to home for them, do not skip opportunities for them, do not pick a university that's close for them. They not the world! Grow yourself, expand your horizons.
Telling a woman who was a victim of abuse that her experiences aren't valid because you've had a positive interaction with her abuser is one of the lowest, most disgusting things you can do.
Unpopular opinion that might ruffle feathers: parental ‘sacrifice’ is a myth. A child’s wellbeing is a parent’s responsibility, not a favour. Any sacrifice is yours to bear, not theirs to repay. Raise them fully cognizant of your challenges but know that it’s duty, not charity.
Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.