Men don't just harm women, they harm mountains, rocks, animals, even flying birds, for fuck's sake. Imagine calling yourself superior when your idea of strength is making others suffer. If cruelty defines your masculinity, you've exposed your inferiority.
Just a reminder that your soul mate is someone who wants to be with you just as much as you want to be with them. Not this thing where you must decode a persons feelings & interest in you. Your soul mate will choose you.