omfg this is disturbing to watch 🥶🥶 the person recording is the manager of a Forever 21. Person hanging stole hella clothes and got chased for like half an hour!
My narcissistic relationship almost ki11ed me and I was never in immediate physical danger.
Don't allow anyone to minimize emotional abuse, psychological neglect, or mental cruelty. It is THAT serious.
My lab partner stole my code for our final project. I told him: “Do not submit this without my name on it. We built it 50/50.”
He laughed, said “Chill, I’ll add you later,” and turned it in solo for the A.
Professor flagged it. Plagiarism + both our names on the repo history. Academic hearing + suspension warning: $0 but my degree delayed 1 semester.
His response? “You’re overreacting. I was gonna credit you.” Then he refused to email the professor to fix it.
Said I was “making drama” and “grades aren’t that serious.”
My advisor jumped in: “He’s stressed. Don’t ruin his future over one project.”
But it wasn’t drama.
I gave him a rule. He erased my name anyway.
So I exported Git commits + timestamps + Discord messages before the hearing.
No accusations. Just hit play on the screen share.
Turns out he’d done this to 2 other girls in his last lab. I was just the first with proof.
Committee gave me full credit + expunged the warning. He got probation + had to retake the class.
He lost his TA position + scholarship.
And somehow…
I’m the one department calls “difficult to work with.”
Apparently, in uni, “group work” means one person takes the grade.
But defending your own work with evidence?
That makes me the bad guy.