a friend who’s an executive coach described her work: “more than advice, what people are really buying is access to my nervous system to help regulate theirs”
sometimes what we seek from certain people is proximity to a way of being. their steadiness, confidence, clarity or aliveness can become temporarily contagious
you should rarely if ever give away your attention, even accidentally.
money can be earned back. attention is literally your finite experience of being alive.
- articulate
- quick witted
- good speech, strong vocab
- ability to process / high motor
- can say what they think, know what they feel, very in touch with themselves
- self control, restraint, disciplined
Couples who meet via dating apps should be more proud of it like they encountered each other at the speed of light as algorithmically ranked data carried through underwater glass fiber cables and escaped the simulation to experience reality together. Romance is less about how you met and more about the fact that you met despite it all
Your entire life will change when you realize energy is the most attractive human trait. Not looks, wealth, or status. Energy. Start walking into rooms with genuine enthusiasm, curiosity, and interest. Watch what happens. You become a magnet for the highest quality people. Energy is contagious. Spread the kind you’d want to catch.
Procrastination is an identity management problem. As long as you haven't started, you are still potentially great and potential is infinite. But actuality is finite and specific and mediocre at first.
Think of it as Schrödinger's talent: the box stays closed and you stay a genius.