@simontmn1@ubiquitousnewt@Gaussian64586 IQ tested woman in the upper group and it 100% was very difficult dating. With men that were relatively smart, the gap was noticeable + difficult to deal with. With women, gaps still existed but they don't show insecurity around it and view it as "oh nice you'll handle xyz!"
Sometimes I forget how blessed I am to have a fiance who is happy to spend every Sunday in a field for 7 hours filming a bunch of dogs training so we can all get better and also get cool shots of me taking bites from malinois like this
The same Americans have been buying toxic plastic chotchkes shipped from overseas that are just ending up polluting landfills and do nothing while shrieking about the climate.
I dipped for 3 weeks to Mongolia to ride horses, drink airag, eat meat and potatoes, see przewalskis horses, and sleep in a ger. Another year I went to southeast Asia for a month to scuba, hike, see temples, and try food. A flag is depends on if the trip has a purpose.
at what age does a like 3-week solo international trip start to be a bit of a red flag? i feel like i have it narrowed down to the 30-40 decade but im hesitant to put a year on it. the average also hides a lot of underlying variance. a solo male trip to thailand rings bells at 28
Smart partner is also important in case of emergency. You never think you will die, but you can in a freak accident. My grandfather left my grandma a widow w/ 3 kids by 35. She was able to ensure my dad and uncles became successful + stable via good choices.
The core issue with dealing with low IQ women is they do not have the intellectual complexity to fully understand your leadership moves (protecting both you & her in unison in real time) & any move you make that is 2-4 steps ahead will be a perpetual & unsolvable/irreconcilable friction point
Any move you make for you guys that is 2-4 steps ahead of โcurrent situationโ will be ironically interpreted you as โnot taking her into considerationโ. She is only aware of RIGHT NOW, and does not have the firepower to register the current moment, what everyone around you is doing, and how the current moment + what is going on around you will play out 5-10 moves/minutes from now
She cannot conceptualize the fact that youโre essentially a situational supercomputer flawlessly leading you both to safety at the same time. She has no idea you have her entire behavioral pattern modeled in your mind & include HER in EVERY thing you do TOGETHER at all moments.
The reason this is an issue is because WHEN you make a move in the moment for both of you that is a strategic read for something you see happening 3-5 moves out, she cannot flow with you. She will basically just get confused & self-destruct, leaving you to now not only deal with the situation itself but also with her misunderstanding of the situation & now, additionally, her frustration at you for perceiving that you didnโt consider her when that is precisely what you did to a shocking level of accuracy
This will happen daily, multiple times. The smart man is always aware. Always calculating.
A smart woman is his only option
My hottest take is if you can't push mow at least 2 acres in the heat you aren't in shape. Sorry, you're just not. Riding mowers are societal decadence and decay, get out there and feel the work (this counts as gym)
Ran out of spotify hours while listening to a book on Japan's unit 731 so I had to switch to using audible credits on another book for the next few days while I wait for spotify to reset. I try to use audible for longer booksand spotify for shorter ones to get my $ worth.
Really lucky that the schutzhund club I joined has such great mentors/members. Awesome advice on gear, training tips for when we practice at home, and just great attitudes. Everyone has made us feel so welcome as beginners and it shows in the progress my girl is making.
Even though I got up at 4am to go sit in 30 degrees and didn't see any deer today I still feel better than if I had slept in and played video games this morning. ๐น
Got a 4th doe yesterday morning and her spike bf hung around just out of range for a while. This year I've perfected my field dressing skills and started learning to butcher with actual technique. My goal for 2024 is to get great at butchering and doing hides.