"A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free."
A. Schopenhauer
At 18, she has choices.
At 18, you have nothing.
At 25, she looks for love.
At 25, you're chasing goals.
At 30, she slows down.
At 30, you're just getting started.
Dear son,
A woman's life starts at 18. A man's life starts at 30. A woman is born with value. A man is born with no value. She has to protect her value. You have to build your value.
I didn't make the rules, Nature did.