There is so much shame reserved for women,
Women are shamed for being single,
Shamed for not "getting married early",
Shamed for not having a child,
For not shedding weight after childbirth,
Not wanting a child or a man,
Shamed for having a divorce,
Shamed for your child's mistakes and excesses,
Shamed for having female children,
Shamed for not loving how to cook,
Shamed for being outspoken and assertive,
For being career-driven,
Shamed for everything mere mortals can conceive.
The fragrance of shame is renewed every morning by humans who are ready to remind you of your inadequacies,
Ensure you never feel good enough.
Some hold onto their past because it is spiced in shame.
Women need to unlearn shame,
Members of the Fluffy Life Club, need to learn how to be shameless.
We need to learn how to have a great relationship with hatred, envy, jealousy, gossip, etc
How not to whimper when humans despise you because not everyone will like or respect you and it's fine.
You also don't have to hurt anyone to be detested, some will inherit the contempt while some will loathe you just because they detest themselves too.
Unlearn shame today,
Resist every feeling of inadequacy and shameful labels.
Own your failures and successes with your chest.
So when the shame servers emerge, tell them not today, Satan.
I am good enough.
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I've noticed in workplaces that people tend to compete against each other rather than complement each other.
In some ways, bosses are responsible. They tend to reward the most seen or "goalscorer" so now everyone wants to become a striker.
Teams like that often fail.
#MyCompassDaily
COUNSEL FOR YOUNG HUSBANDS
The night I proposed to my beloved wife and she told me “No” for quite some reasons. As the reasons began to roll in, I perceived God speaking to me:
“I have placed my daughter in your hands because I know you will not break her again”.
Single men, we need to really learn how to pray. When we get married, we will need to have faith for the whole family, including your kids. You will stand in gap for everyone under your roof. One of your roles as a father will be as a Priest.
We need to learn to pray early.
IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO DO THIS, IT IS BETTER TO REMAIN SINGLE...👇👇👇
That evening, Irewamiri asked me, "I wanted to confirm from you, why did you tell ___ that story while speaking to so and so?" I quietly explained...
My dear teacher said to us “When a person is moving, it is a seamless cooperation between the head and the body. That is a sign of good health. However, when the body begins to feel the weight of the head, there is already sickness in the system”
Husband, never take your wife for granted. Cherish her; whatever is not cherished can perish. Share your vision with her per time, let her know the direction you are going and driving her. Hear her opinion too. CAUTION: Never use the information of your spouse against them. #RSSS
The great Muhammed Ali was asked, "What's the central part of your training, is it running, is it sparring?"
He said,"Do you want to know the truth? Dodging the nightclub and parties.Getting to bed by yourself by 9pm. If you keep it that way you will make it." Stay Disciplined!💪
A New Way of Thinking
Earlier yesterday, I took a walk with my wife. Along the way, we met an elderly man using a walking aid who should be in his 70s. "Excuse me, please I'm looking for the underground station", he said as he turned to me.