@Mbinya__ I'm sorry to hear that. I hope she is alright. Try Passive love. Do something with her cook, wash utensils or watch a movie. Try talking or even do it silently. Cook good food. Learn recipes together.
@RealkolaKE Trigger -> Force Engagement -> Repeat. Same patterns, different subject. Watch. Learn the art of not responding ladies and gents. Ni sawa. Venye unadai.