My card just declined while buying a homeless man a cigarette and he laughed at me. that nigga said “sit out here with me somebody gone come through for us” fuck ass nigga man 😂😂
stop chasing after people & being the only one trying to fix everything. it’s mentally & physically exhausting. you have to find peace with whoever comes & goes from your life. don’t be the only one putting in effort bc you will end up losing yourself trying to save everyone else
The real problem is, most of us were raised by parents who were just surviving so they taught us survival, not life. No one sat us down to explain how debt works, how to self soothe, how to say 'no' without guilt, or how to walk away from love that hurts. We weren't shown what emotional safety looks like, we were just told to keep the peace, suppress the feelings and work harder. Now we're adults paying bills on autopilot, spiraling in relationships, mistaking burnout for success and calling anxiety our personality. Lost, overwhelmed and wondering why we feel broken when in reality, we were just never taught the basics of being whole.