when you miss him, just remember: he had a choice, and he didn’t choose you. and as much as it hurts, you deserve someone who chooses you without hesitation. someone who sees your worth, values your presence, and never makes you question whether you’re enough.
missing him doesn’t mean you should go back. sometimes, your heart misses the memories while your mind remembers the pain. let yourself miss him, but don’t forget why you had to let him go.
Life is hard enough. Please don’t make it harder by holding on to someone who can’t love you. I know letting go is scary. But you’ll be okay without them.
You’ll see.
Repeatedly pushing someone past their limit so you can weaponize their reaction and paint yourself as the victim is calculated, cowardly, and pure evil.
One of the hardest lessons I’ve learned is that you cannot force anyone to communicate, understand your perspective, or work through problems with you.
It doesn’t matter how much you love them or how important the relationship is to you. You cannot beg someone into understanding your heart. You cannot convince someone to recognize the value of your friendship or see why your love is worth holding onto.
They have to reach that understanding themselves.
If someone chooses to walk away, let them. Stop exhausting yourself trying to keep someone who has decided they don’t want to stay. You can care about someone deeply and still accept that you cannot make their choices for them.
People will do you so wrong, and then expect time to heal you enough to have a neutral view towards them. And if you aren’t neutral, they take that as you being stuck on the situation, bitter, unable to move on or still emotionally consumed by what happened, when in reality, you can move on from a situation and still maintain the same opinion of somebody that their behaviour caused you to form.
PLEASE avoid eggshell type of relationships, can't express yourself, can't be yourself, can't be straight forward, can't be comfortable, can't talk like adults, can't be heard, can't respond with love without it actually turning into something negative...