As a man, Neverrrrrrrrr feel guilty spending money on:
Toothbrush
Toothpaste
Whey protein
Eggs
Chicken
Fruits
Gym membership
Good shoes
Mattress
Quality pillows
Water filter
Haircut
Skincare basics
Books
Tools
Internet
These aren't luxuries. they're maintenance.
A man is happiest when he is making money, owning businesses, buying massive land, having a home gym, and building a big family.
Everything else is a distraction.
Avoid these money mistakes:
1. Never save your emergency fund in a SACCO
2. Never use your Money market fund for long term investing.
3. Never save money using your banks’ saving or fixed deposit account
4. Never use your Chama as your only savings or investment plan
5. Never borrow money to invest in stocks.
Men,
Always have an exit strategy,
- In dating
- In marriage
- In friendships
- In EMPLOYMENT
Don't attach your emotions.
Hanging on relationships like a parasite is ONEITIS.
Don't blindly cling to relationships, you will be disappointed.
#MasculinitySaturday
Be rich, but never talk about money.
Be fit, but never talk about working out.
Be sharp, but never mention books.
You’re a man.
Never let excitement make you announce things prematurely.
Stay low-key and move silently.
Trust me, you’ll never regret it.
When you intentionally stand out, you become a target for hostility.
People silently dislike you not because you are arrogant but because you have refused to be submissive to their expectations.
They want you to:
• Stay humble but not too confident
• Be ambitious but not too successful
• Speak your mind, but not too boldly
• Blend in but don't shine too brightly
However, when you break these expectations, people become uneasy with you, they become hostile because you have opened their deep-rooted wounds.
Your authenticity irritates the person who spends his life pretending.
People don't hate who you are, they hate what they assume you represent in their heads.
They might decide that you are selfish, when you are just independent,
Or, you are manipulative when you are just observant,
Or, you are arrogant when you are just focused.
When people cannot read you, they project their fears onto you.
You're a man.
Make money.
Save money.
Invest money.
If not, you will suffer.
Remember this son,
Money gives you the ability to walk away from people and situations you don't like.
The taller you are, the more seriously they take you.
The quieter you are, the more they fear what you're thinking.
The deeper your voice, the more weight your words carry.
The more muscle you build, the less they dare to test you.
RESPECT ISN'T GIVEN, IT'S ENGINEERED.
In a world full of boys chasing women, drugs, and sex.
Be a man who is busy fixing his finances, body, mind, and a strong relationship with God. Trust me, You'll go far in life.