Ratri Dian

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[Ratri Dian @_ratridian]

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[Ratri Dian @_ratridian]

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[Ratri Dian @_ratridian]

Tentu tidak semua bisa (dan baik) diungkap saat ini juga, tapi mengingkari boleh munculnya reaksi-reaksi tadi —apalagi sampai menjadikannya bahan tertawaan — juga tidak pas. Justru pada lapisan tipis inilah mestinya muncul perbedaan yang telah dirintis selama puluhan tahun.

[Ratri Dian @_ratridian]

Padahal yang terutama menjadi pokok pertanyaan, keterkejutan, kekhawatiran, dan - mungkin - kekecewaan bukanlah soal kompetensi. Melainkan atas urgensi sebesar apa (yang tidak semua orang punya akses untuk mengetahuinya) sampai-sampai mengambil risiko sebesar itu.

[Navalism @NavalismHQ]

"Learn math, kids. Speaking the language of nature is the ultimate superpower."

@naval

[Ana Lorena Fabrega @anafabrega11]

Teach your kids to question everything.

If we don’t ask questions, we get stuck with the status quo. When we question things, we innovate.

[Adam Grant @AdamMGrant]

Public service announcement for managers and coaches: you can't judge effort by results.

Inconsistent performance doesn't mean people aren't trying their best. It often means they're doing their best in the face of turbulence.

In humans, variability is a feature, not a bug.

[Scott Barry Kaufman ⛵ @sbkaufman]

I'd like say something about my research on human intelligence:

I've found that while IQ is very predictive of rate of learning new and complex information, IQ within the normal range does not necessarily *preclude* the capacity to learn and to create.

Perhaps more importantly, I've found that intellectual curiosity matters much more than IQ for long-term creative achievement, and that conscientiousness can help everyone persevere despite learning setbacks to get better at whatever someone is attempting to learn.

My thoughts on IQ are nuanced in that I have published papers showing that IQ does predict speed of on-the-spot reasoning for things that make strong demands on working memory, but I also like to emphasize to people that depth of reflection, curiosity about learning new things, thinking divergently, and having the willpower to stick with learning is what fills in a full existence and are all attributes that should be rewarded in schools and in the workplace.

[Scott Barry Kaufman ⛵ @sbkaufman]

We certainly don't have 100% free will because each of us is part of a causal chain much bigger than ourselves.

But to say we have 0% free will also seems unlikely. We can put in the conscious work to shift the probabilities and stack the odds as much in our favor as we can, and I believe there are individual differences in the capacity to influence our odds based on various cognitive, personality, and environmental factors.

But it is freeing knowing that ultimately it's out of our hands. While it's unlikely that the universe has a conscious plan, it's kinda freeing to know that there is a causal chain of nature that transcends (and includes) each of us, and which we get the privilege of consciously witnessing throughout our miraculous lives.

[Ratri Dian @_ratridian]

Check out this book: "The Tools: 5 Tools to Help You Find Courage,…" by Phil Stutz, Barry… https://t.co/rN7b2iJKsU

[Adam Grant @AdamMGrant]

Wisdom doesn’t come from experience. It comes from reflecting on experience.

Between ages 25 and 75, the correlation between age and wisdom is zero.

Gaining insight and perspective is not about the number of years you've lived. It's about the number of lessons you've learned.

[Andrew D. Huberman, Ph.D. @hubermanlab]

If you’re waking up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom (“washroom” if you’re Canadian) try sipping, not gulping your last beverage of the day. The speed that you ingest fluid, and not just the total amount, helps dictate the urination response. #fewerwakeups

[Matt Schnuck @mattschnuck]

A famous researcher predicts divorce with 91% accuracy.

He invented a game to protect against the #1 relationship killer.

Here it is (in 3 minutes):

[Ratri Dian @_ratridian]

Change is change. Growth is growth. Sometimes change indicates growth, but sometimes it doesn't. Personal growth is easy to measure. But comparing generations? It's way too hard. What was effective back then can be inadequate today. And vice versa.

[Cory Muscara @corymuscara]

I meditated 15 hours a day for 6 months straight with one of the toughest Buddhist monks on the planet.

Here's what I learned:

[Robert Greene @RobertGreene]

Constantly remind yourself of how little you truly know and of how mysterious the world remains.

[Matt Schnuck @mattschnuck]

How to avoid a life of regret.

The Paradox Map.

What it is and why everyone needs to know it:

[Clair 光 @lynxluna]

This a testament that rich people can buy their basic needs in bulk. Which is a lot cheaper than buying it individually.

Context: one reason that rich people getting richer.

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[Eternalised @eternalised1]

Carl Jung - The Power of Knowing Your Dark Side in collaboration with After Skool

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#carljung #shadow #psychology

[John David Haskins @JohnHaskinsJr]

I was addicted to porn for 9 years.

When I say porn ruins young men's lives, I speak from experience.

This is what it did to my life:

(Porn addict physiognomy vs sober chad physiognomy, 4-year difference)