Social media doesn’t have shit to do with my real life. I get on here for entertainment. What anyone do or say on here doesn’t determine how ima carry shit in real life. I have a mind of my own!!!
Major cheat code for life: Leave people better than you found them. A kind word. A thoughtful question. A small encouragement. A little more belief than they had before. You never know which sentence becomes the one someone carries for years.
If you want to know your character, do not study yourself only in hardship, study yourself when you have options, privacy, attention, and the power to get away with small betrayals, because abundance reveals true character.
1. When a woman complains a lot of a certain guy, she usually wants to sleep with him. Complaining = emotional investment. Don't be fooled.
2. Never ask for sex. Asking kills the entire vibe instantly. When you need permission like a scared boy, she feels pressure instead of desire and shuts down completely. Lead, don't beg.
3. Most men fail because they try too hard. Over-text. Over-explain. Over-invest. And she? She loses interest not because you're not good enough, but because you don't understand how attraction actually works.
4. If you can't handle chaos, you're not built for the throne. Chaos is the tax you pay for the throne. Most men crumble under pressure. They seek comfort when life throws them into fire. Don't be one of them.
5. Train yourself to take nothing personally from women, she can love you at 10am and block you at 12pm.
6. She won't marry you unless you have a promising future, that's fair. You shouldn't marry her unless she has a clean past. That's also fair.
7. The world doesn't care about your intentions. It doesn't care how "good" you are. It only respects results. And money is one of the loudest results you can show.
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Stay focused on you and your daily bread. 💰
My position on argumentation is often sourced from a phrase I read in a Japanese book:
'Always remember that to argue, and win, is to break down the reality of the person you are arguing against. It is painful to lose your reality, so be kind, even if you are right.'
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.
Every time you claim how useful your ego is,
there’s a psychopath out there far more motivated and selfish than you,
with the capacity to completely submerge their ego in pursuit of their target.
And that is why they win.
And you don’t.
A rule that will lower your anxiety: Don’t replay conversations you can’t change, and don’t pre-live ones that haven’t happened. Focus on the next right action. Most stress comes from living everywhere except the present.
There is money in this world. Insane money. Your mates are making ridiculous money out there because of information, access, and network. Pressure yourself, you are not doing enough.
The average man worships balance because balance lets him preserve every weakness. A little ambition, a little comfort, a little discipline, a little escape. Then he meets the man who sacrificed variety for one brutal aim. Moderation sounds noble until it becomes a hiding place.
An emotional response to a situation is the single greatest barrier to power, a mistake that will cost you a lot more than any temporary satisfaction you might gain by expressing your feelings.
"Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve."
— Napoleon Hill.
Belief is not a magic wand, belief is a contract.
The mind signs it, and then the body, then the schedule, and then the mouth begins to honour it.
YES, YOU CAN.
Believe it.
Uncommon advice: If you don't know what to pursue in life right now. Pursue yourself. Pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. Then the right path will reveal itself.
“Time will tell” is one of the realest quotes ever because time will eventually tell who put in the work, it will tell who was disciplined, it will tell who was playing the long game. Time will indeed tell.