but if you squeeze it too tightly to ensure it stays with you, you’ll end up hurting it by accident. part of its beauty is how free it is. that it exists without restriction. that it can spread its wings & dance in the sun for you.
“relying too much on one friend may also lead to possessiveness.” i use the butterfly example when advising people who lean towards possessiveness in relationships & friendships. it’s great that you find the butterfly beautiful & unique & so special that you want to keep it…
I know drug addiction is a mental illness, I just wish addicts knew that they were still loved even while being in active addiction. No one hates you, people love you and want you to make it to the other side alive
Signs of emotional immaturity in dating:
1. Using manipulation to get a rise or reaction
2. Expecting someone to mind read (without clearly communicating.)
3. Passive aggressive behavior “I’m fine” while sighing or making angry faces.
This morning I said “my head hurts” and my boyfriend got up and said I’m going to get medicine I’ll be back then came back with medicine and my whole starbucks order 💟
Maturity is understanding why someone behaves the way they do, while also understanding we're not responsible for what people have gone through in their past. If someone is hurtful or abusive, it's not our job to try to fix them. It's theirs.