I’m sorry but it actually is sooooo nice to have a partner you can call to talk to & help you figure things out. It’s amazing to lay your head next to someone who loves you and sees you when you feel like the rest of world doesn’t. And anyone who tells you otherwise is insane.
After a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn’t do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth… just basking in your toxicity huh?