PSA for new gun owners:
Warning shorts are generally illegal and you are responsible every bullet that leaves your gun. You are at fault if a bystander is hit and you also just told the threat where you are and that you are armed. Bad idea.
This same flawed thinking applies to "I only want to wound them."
Absolutely not.
You only deploy a firearm when you reasonably believe your life (or someone elseโs) is in imminent danger. The intent is to stop the threat. Whether the attacker lives or dies is secondary.
Deliberately trying to only wound them is an admission that the threat wasnโt serious enough to justify lethal force in the first place.
Using a gun defensively means you must be ok with ending a life. That decision has to be made BEFORE you get into the situation.
If she pulls away, youโre probably doing this.
Youโre giving her more attention than your own life.
Let me tell yโall something.
There are probably hundreds of guys texting her every day, sending hearts, calling her beautiful. And hear me out.Yโall know dudes who donโt even do all that, yet theyโve got the baddest girls.
Why? Because theyโre not chasing.
you gotta start acting like the prize.
If you treat her like a celebrity, sheโll treat you like a fan.Stop treating her like the prize when you are the actual prize.
Iโm not saying be egotistical, but in a relationship it should be mutual. Not one-sided, where you do everything and spoil her just because she exists.What nonsense is that?
Ainโt no way Iโm spoiling a girl just because she thinks she has pretty eyes. I ainโt that drunk.
So fam, listen closely.
Start prioritizing yourself.Start hitting the gym.Start working on that business.Start reading, even if you have to switch off your phone.
Youโll attract her naturally. Not by playing games, not by ghosting, but by building something real.
What I want from GWOT history now is someone sitting down with the colonels and generals and making them explain specific decisions.
We have an enormous amount of what Iโd call working-class and middle-management history: enlisted guys, NCOs, junior officers, company commanders, etc. And thatโs valuable.
But then somebody says, โOur colonel wouldnโt let us run more M2s/M203s,โ or โHe kept sending us on this mission even after guys were getting killed,โ or โHigher refused X because they didnโt want the war fought that way.โ
Okay. Letโs find the colonel (or whatever). Put him on a microphone.
โDid you make that decision?โ
โWhy?โ
โWhat information did you have?โ
โWhat constraints were you experiencing?โ
โWho above you was involved?โ
โWhat did you think the enemy was doing?โ
โWhat tradeoff did you believe you were making?โ
Because right now, a huge amount of GWOT history is basically the people executing decisions explaining what happened while the people who actually MADE the decisions either never speak or give us 90 minutes of polished corporate leadership language.
I want the uncomfortable, specific after-action interview. Not โleadership is about taking care of soldiersโ or some derivative crap designed to sell books on Amazon.
I want details, I want the question asked: Why did you do that specific thing?
German soldiers of the Second World War have often been portrayed as rigid, unimaginative, and brutish. The record of professional military analysts is different.
U.S. Army Colonel Trevor N. Dupuy, after systematic comparison of combat results, concluded that 100 German soldiers were the equivalent of 120 American, British or French soldiers, or 200 Soviet soldiers. โOn a man for man basis,โ he wrote, โGerman ground soldiers consistently inflicted casualties at about a 50 percent higher rate than they incurred from the opposing British and American troops under all circumstances.โ
This held whether they were attacking or defending, outnumbered or not, with or without air superiority.