Cyn

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[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@internhell @tryin2bgreenman @agraybee I have no personal beef with the suicidal penguin, but it's not an ideal role model

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@HowlingBeacon @Boppedoff @agraybee "cuckoldry is when you aren't having sex with a woman anymore (because you broke up)"

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@trashcanfire88 @agraybee Here's a guy who seems to be handling his divorce really well, doesn't have a combative relationship with his ex-wife, and is continuing to co-parent as he pursues whatever is next in his life, with no indication of suicidality. You insist demographics make it likely regardless

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@roiacephale @agraybee Well hopefully you would also eventually reach the level of self-determination and healthy relationships that this guy has

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@Boppedoff @HowlingBeacon @agraybee To them it's all cuckoldry, bc they can only conceive of interactions with other people through the lens of sexual dominance or humiliation. If a Muslim guy holds the McDonald's door open for them, they immediately feel they've been door-cucked as part of white genocide

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@HowlingBeacon @agraybee And yet I'm alive and your hypothetical family annihilator is rotting in the ground 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@Anoniobx @TunesRank @agraybee Fascinating

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@trashcanfire88 @agraybee My point is that you're looking at a dark, cloudy sky and saying, "statistically, it's very unlikely to rain here during this season"

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@HowlingBeacon @agraybee Not really

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@MVolge4977 @st1xxxxxxx @agraybee Let's suppose he does (or did) feel humiliated. What would your advice be to him in this situation?

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@trashcanfire88 @agraybee What do you believe to be the driving factors for that particular demographic to have an increased suicide rate

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@HowlingBeacon @agraybee I'm gonna put my bets on "guy whose friendly gay ex-wife vouches for his character to his dates" over "guy who is dead after a murder-suicide" in terms of life success every time, tbh

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@mealdealtruther That is what they'd prefer, yes 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@trashcanfire88 @agraybee Do you?

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@Alex_Clover_ @DrinkinDrano @agraybee Ok, but what if the war is "being in a marriage that isn't making anybody happy", and the recruits can simply decide to end the war altogether and go do other things

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@sid0rex @Alex_Clover_ @DrinkinDrano @agraybee Funniest possible example, because "recruit came out as gay" would in fact cause the *military* to immediately break the commitment before 2012, and "recruit came out as trans" will still do the same today

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@Alex_Clover_ @DrinkinDrano @agraybee So then which part of the marriage is "going to war"

[Cyn @a_useless_ham]

@yehs688738 @agraybee I think most people would infer that "recently" is relative, and that the event described in the post suggests a lot of conversations were had about what these two people want their relationship to be before getting to this final outcome