To my married sisters, berhati-hatilah dalam mencintai manusia. Allah uji kita dengan perkara ygpaling kita sayang. & in my case, suami. I diuji dengan suami curang waktu I pregnan. 2 kali dalam tempoh 9 bulan tu. It was really hard navigating being a new mom with marriage issue
Starting from today. Siapa je yang datang, siapa yang nak pergi and siapa yang nak stay ke apa ke, I dah tak kisah. As I grow older, I've learned something. Not all people I loved will stay in my life forever. But I always remember this: "The best, will stay."
Jangan sampai burnout, sebab sakit sangat bila tiba-tiba rasa sebak, rasa kosong. Rasa penat gila mentally and physically. Rasa nak menangis tanpa sebab.
Give yourself a break.
Ramai manusia sedang bertarung dalam diam, termasuk kita. Fighting battles no one else can see. Mental hancur, jiwa dah mati, tapi tubuh masih bergerak. Pura pura baik, pura-pura kuat. Because life demands us to keep going, even when every step feels heavier than the last.
Now I understand why kita kena cari partner yang betul betul take note small details pasal kita. Especially yang berkait dengan mental health, trauma, apa yang buat kita takut & apa yang trigger kita. Because some just listen to understand, but the right one will listen to learn.