Aiman

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[Qeez #RobohKuilHaram @qeezfikir]

Zaman sekarang istilah “qawwam” tu mostly describing suami provider diorang yang kaya dan loving, boleh beli apa sahaja yang dia nak dan biar isteri buat apa saja (dayus). Padahal qawwam termasuk tegur salah isteri. Kalau firaun hidup lagi, diorang akan label firaun tu qawwam 😂

[hdgavwgw @nhna_a]

Patutnya tengok effort bukannya status.

Ada yang kaya tapi lokek dan berkira. Serba serbi tak boleh

Ada yang “miskin” di mata orang, tapi hari-hari berusaha nak penuhi permintaan kau. Miskin2 dia pun sanggup la cari duit nak bawak kau dating punya pasal

Belum tentu yang kaya tu akan pandang kau macam manusia. Yg kaya tu dia tahu susahnya cari duit, so kalau kau datang hanya untuk duit, probably dia nampak kau ni kaki kikis dan beban saja.

So jangan letakkan segalanya dekat status. Tengok perilaku dan effort dulu, itu paling penting

[Taqiyuddin Bakir @taqiyuddinbakir]

@wilsonyimby Malaysia is not the problem. The whole world is the problem. It wrongly assumes that everyone have surnames. Systemic culture erasure!

[Ahza @ahzaazzahra]

It’s wild how people label her a “pick me” just because she stated a fact.

Good men exist. Bad men exist.
Good women exist. Bad women exist.

Just because you’ve had a bad experience with one gender doesn’t give you the right to blame an entire group for it.

Good people exist.

[hdgavwgw @nhna_a]

Masalahnya di sini tiada siapa yg hukum semua perempuan. Perempuan yang hukum and pukul rata semua lelaki. Belajar bezakan

Nak memilih untuk taknak hidup susah boleh, tapi jangan sombong sampai mencaci orang miskin, mendongak langit…sebab mungkin satu hari nanti kita akan berada kat tempat tu.

Ada beza miskin dgn malas.

[surreal putrajayan 🇵🇸 @fazleyff]

Personally felt that Pasar Seni MRT station should have integrated in, or rebuilt the shophouses as entrances to the station.

They could've been like those London Underground stations where the station would be along row of shophouses.. or like the Wat Mangkon MRT station

[Ar-Ruzzi @ar_ruzzi]

Sebab tu Feng Shui syirik. Horoscope pun syirik. Ada yang sampai tak bagi kawan dia kahwin dengan boyfriend dia sebab katanya Aries tak sesuai kahwin dengan Scorpio. Kalau orang Melayu pulak, orang Kelantan tak boleh kahwin orang Nismilan. Ini semua syirik.

[Hizwani Hassan @hizwani]

BUAT JER

Bila dah biasa BUAT JER lama-lama kita belajar yg benda-benda buruk kita jangkakan boleh berlaku, ianya sebenarnya jarang berlaku

Makin banyak kita BUAT
Makin banyak tak menjadi

Bila makin banyak tak menjadi
Lebih banyak yg menjadi

Insya-Allah kita akan makin berani

[Veloria🐬 @veloriahq]

“𝘐𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘮𝘺 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘴, 𝘐 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘴 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘐 𝘥𝘪𝘥𝘯’𝘵 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘐 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦𝘥.”

— 𝘍𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘥𝘳𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘕𝘪𝘦𝘵𝘻𝘴𝘤𝘩𝘦

[hdgavwgw @nhna_a]

As someone yang selalu kena label pick me and macam- macam fitnah, i can agree with this statement

Sampai satu tahap I nampak yang dorang ni sebenarnya taknak ditegur siapa-siapa pun. Instead of balas dengan cara ilmiah dan elok-elok, dorang akan twist ayat you, create conclusion sendiri, label you pick me, and then buat cerita dekat circle dorang untuk tarnish your name.

Belum lagi part bila argue tu akan penuh ejekan, makian, emotional, ego. Argue hanya sebab nak menang, bukannya untuk mencari kebenaran. Kalau sesuatu fakta tu diluar kapasiti naratif dan otak dorang, mulalah emotional gila and throwing labels

Ayat Al-Quran pun dorang boleh twist ikut kehendak dorang, apatah lagi kata-kat manusia lmaoo

[Zamir Mohyedin @zamirmohyedin]

Nak buat baik pada orang tersayang pun nak kena ada pulangan dan ganjaran.

Ini mungkin streotaip.

Kebanyakan lelaki, paling luluh hatinya, kecewa jiwanya bila tak cukup memberi. Dah memberi, tak mintak sedikit pun ganjaran.

Tengok anak isteri gembira, itulah ganjaran dia nak.

Suami isteri kena ada jiwa macam ini. Kita kahwin dengan orang yg kita sayang, bukan kahwin dengan musuh dan pesaing.

[hdgavwgw @nhna_a]

And do you know who normalized the idea that children are a burden, especially to women?

Feminists 😆

Modern feminism really helped spread the idea that motherhood is more of a burden than a blessing.

That’s why you see “unpaid labour”, emotional labor, motherhood penalty, domestic exploitation terms being used more frequently these days

All these terms are often used by feminists to paint marriage and motherhood in a negative light. Not too mention, household responsibilities are framed as major sacrifices for wives, while the responsibilities and burdens carried by husbands are often downplayed🤷🏾

[ammardathinker @ammardathinker]

Tak sekarang ni aku nak tahu kenapa suara dia bunyi macam PMX 😭

[AZZURA | Parenting and Family Psychology @n_azzurajafri]

Hehehehehhe.
Sebagai orang yang kerja dalam bidang psikologi kekeluargaan ni memang merisaukan tau.

I am afraid because I see society starts to look at children like they are a burden. And apa-apa kita buat untuk anak itu kena dapat reward. And suami seolah-olah WAJIB bagi reward walaupun tak mampu. Sedangkan suami jaga kebajikan dia. Atas sebab tak bagi reward, dicanang satu dunia.

Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rojiun

Being pregnant, go through delivery process is described as "wahn ala wahn". Allah iktiraf kesusahan itu. And parenting is the hardest job I would say. Do you think any human can repay that? Nope. Only Allah can.

Ihsan suami mestilah penting. Dan menjadi isteri/ibu bersyukur juga PENTING.

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

I’m in love with this sentence:

“Your laziness is disrespectful for the people who believe in you.”

[Aiman @aimnmj]

I think you may need to step out of your echo chamber to recalibrate a bit.

[Triiad ୭୭ @triiadxx]

the older i get the more i realise happiness is quiet mornings, a clean space, early nights, a safe home and people who don’t drain my energy.

[Lisa @lisathebeauty1]

i wonder how many times they had to forgive eachother to get here

[GRITCULT @GRITCULT]

“Everything will spike your cortisol if you’re a pussy”

What a line.

Gonna use this one.