diperhatiin, didengerin, dicariin, inget hal hal kecil, dikasi reassurance kalo lg ovt, dingertiin, divalidasiin perasaan aku kalo lagi sedih kesel ataupun happy, bisa jaga perasaan cewenya, dikasi ketenangan dan kenyamanan pokonya
“and just as much as i love the curiosity you have for me, i hope you know that i’m just as eager to learn you. [] so we can age slowly. and love for a very, very long time.”
always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that's growth
teman2, tolong bantu viralkan. diberitakan bun*h dir* tp luka2nya jelas ada indikasi penyiksaan. mantan suaminya adalah polisi dan keluarga mantan suami seperti menutupi sesuatu #justicefowindalorenza
silahkan cek IG @/justiceforwindalorenza
here’s the truth: most all careers turn into sales job when you are senior enough :)
as you grow in your career, your job is less about what’s written on the job description and more about influencing, convincing, and selling, whether pitch your ideas, plans, or relationships.
🐈 so… the reason i actually went live today is…the t-shirt i wore yesterday seemed to make some people uncomfortable, and i genuinely didn’t know. i thought it was just a regular t-shirt, but apparently it’s related to a movie that many people in Kazakhstan find very offensive. i heard it’s a black comedy that portrays them in a bad way. yes, the t-shirt shirt with holes in it. i didn’t know about it yesterday, but after seeing that some people were uncomfortable because of it, i’d like to apologize first. i threw the shirt away immediately. even if i didn’t know, if it made people uncomfortable, it’s still my mistake, so i’m sorry. i got rid of the shirt right away.
🐈 actually, i wanted to apologize first thing this morning, before the concert. but when i checked the time in Kazakhstan, it was still the middle of the night. so i thought it’d be better to go live when people there would actually be awake to see it. i think it’s around 8 or 9 a.m. there now. so as soon as i got back, i started this live. i’m sorry. i’m sincerely sorry, and i’ll reflect on this.
🐈 i’ll delete the TikTok too. also… i found out that the person who created the dance is also from Kazakhstan. the choreographer. i truly had no idea. i’m sorry. i really didn’t know. i’ll be more careful from now on.
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it's not empowering when my intern subordinate yang waktu itu masih sma diomongin sama kartap karena she doesn't wear any make up dan dibilang gaenak diliat. padahal dia rapi aja dan pakaiannya jg ga kumel. tell me it's "your body your choice" when in fact it is a system.
i think it's important to have something to look forward to every day or every week, so when life drains you, it’ll help you to remember that you need to keep going a little longer because there's something waiting for you at the end of the week that might make you smile again.