Maturity is accepting your flaws so no one can use them against you, being private and not telling people more than they need to know so no one can sabotage you, and pausing before reacting so you can calmly control how you respond to things sent to trigger your mental health.
At some point you just got to tell people, I love you, but I’m no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to remove myself. I’m not even asking you to change.