@RobertSecundus It's strange, but I've found having a vision of what my life might look like without a partner and kids actually makes dating easier.
Like worst-case scenario I go travel a bunch in my 30s and then I can dedicate my life to running a cat shelter. Why stress over one Hinge date
Knowing that ADHD/Autistic folk are prone to Rejection Sensitivity Disorder should change the way you date. Saying “no” to an AuDHDer is more like telling a neurotypical to kill themselves. One date, just a couple hours of your life, is not too much to ask for and really helps
@patio11 Ahhhh, thanks for clarifying.
Instead of “I didn’t get X position, must be because Y flaw” it’s “I’m aiming for this goal by doing these 3-4 things, and the individual outcomes aren’t a reflection of my value”
Insightful take!
4 day work week, reduced consumption, a move away from oil & gas. he did in a week what degrowth policy advocacy couldnt push for for another decade
@DeepDishEnjoyer@brian_eno_69 got one during jaw surgery and it’s the best part about the entire process - I can actually breathe and sleep easily at night. 4w out and I love it
If a woman has a high body count she is "sexy" and "confident" and "free" but if a man does he's a "diva" and "ran through" and "his legacy as a superstar is tarnished"? We have got to reevaluate our culture of misandry
@bubbleboi i hate being poor more than i want to be filthy rich, sue me.
also based on my peers the faang / startup split is mostly risk tolerance. first gen folks went to faang, double legacies went to startups, even with the same gpa. though i am a bit of a midwit