1. This is the most romantic thing ever, love it
2. The fact that you could do this and have it ~mostly~ make sense is one of my few criticisms of ASOIAF as a whole lol
The statements "You'll find someone eventually" and "You can be happy without a partner" were scientifically engineered to make me want to violently rip whoever said it into hundreds of chunks of unidentifiable flesh with the strength and wrath of a rabid baboon