People drift
Egos flare
Pride gets loud
And suddenly two people who once understood each other… stop speaking at all.
But not every distance has to be permanent
Sometimes one honest message can rebuild everything.
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I’m in love with this sentence:
“The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself without running away.”
Not Tola rethinking her decision! 🤣🤣
The heist was successful or so they thought.
Now that the owner’s son has sprung up out of nowhere, what will they do?
Catch #TheSplit at 20:30 WAT on #AMShowcase.
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I highly recommend the book of Psalms. There’s a prayer for every type of situation you can think of. Thanksgiving, repentance, heartbreak, trials/difficulty, doubt, fear/anxiety, etc. Psalm is a great resource to read on a daily basis. Start from the beginning & let God lead you
3 days to go until #TheSplit premieres!
Are Abdul, Tola and Harriet ready for the storm heading their way?
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There are people trapped inside the Great Nigeria House building in Lagos that caught fire 6days ago.
There are people trapped inside the Great Nigeria House building in Lagos that caught fire 6days ago.
There are people trapped inside the Great Nigeria House building in Lagos that caught fire 6days ago.
THE NIGERIAN GOVERNMENT HAS FAILED TO RESCUE THEM FOR 6 WHOLE DAYS.
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There's something that fires me up about taking care of my wife.
Last night proved it.
I walked in from work to absolute chaos:
One kid just threw up. Another was whining and crying. Two more were fighting over a toy.
And my wife was standing in the middle of it all, completely fried.
She looked at me with exhausted eyes that said: "I can't do this anymore."
You know what happened to my energy?
It didn't drop. It multiplied.
"Go upstairs. Take a break. I've got this."
She didn't argue. She just left.
I cleaned up the puke. Broke up the fight. Calmed the crying one. Got everyone settled.
And I felt ALIVE doing it.
Here's what most guys don't understand about marriage:
Your wife doesn't need you only when things are smooth.
She needs you MOST when she's at her breaking point.
When the kids are losing it.
When dinner burned.
When she's had zero breaks all day.
When she's one more tantrum away from losing it herself.
THAT'S when you step up.
Not with resentment. Not keeping score.
But with energy. Purpose. Leadership.
"I've got you. Go rest."
That's what it means to be a husband.
Not 50/50. Not splitting duties down the middle.
It's 100/100. Both of you giving everything, especially when the other has nothing left.
When she's running on empty, I fill the tank.
When I'm running on empty, she fills mine.
That's the partnership.
Most guys see chaos at home and think: "Great, more problems after a long day."
I see my wife exhausted and think: "Time to lead."
That shift in perspective changes everything.
Your wife married a man who would protect her, provide for her, and PARTNER with her.
Don't just be a roommate managing a household.
Be the man who shows up when it's hard.
That's what she needs. That's what your kids need to see.
Show up.
I was 17 years old the first and only time I said the F word in front of my mother. Didn’t know my Dad had just walked in from a long day’s work and was behind the kitchen door listening to my rebellious wanna be alpha male address my mother in such a horrible way. I never knew he could run that fast. I never knew my body could leave an imprint in the drywall like that. I didn’t know I could levitate. My Dad was on me like white on rice. He told me “You will not speak to my bride like that ever again.”
After the immense fear had subsided (😂) and I was thanking God I was alive and well (my dad is no small man) I realized that she wasn’t first and foremost my mother, she was first and foremost his bride. I never stopped seeing her that way. And with that, as things are often caught not taught, I strive to make sure my kids know my wife is first my bride before she is their mother. There is absolutely no relationship on earth more sacred than the one between husband & wife. Cherish it, protect it, fight for it.