You'll never feel safe with a man who gets angry at you for being upset over something he did, and then gaslights/diminishes your experience, and doesn't hold space for you. That is man with his inner child on the steering wheel. You're in a trauma bond with his inner child.
If you wait too long, the coffee gets cold, the door closes, you get old, the girls move on, & dreams fade. You must act w/ a sense of urgency today
I’m sorry but it actually is sooooo nice to have a partner you can call to talk to & help you figure things out. It’s amazing to lay your head next to someone who loves you and sees you when you feel like the rest of world doesn’t. And anyone who tells you otherwise is insane.
“i have so much love to give” okay so give it to yourself because the way you’re malnourished, dehydrated and sleep deprived all at once is really something.
It always amazes me how you can almost always feel in your soul when its time.. time for change, time to move on from certain ppl, time to get rid of unhealthy habits.. just time to want MORE for yourself. Theres a point where you just KNOW and can feel it.