You’ll never obsess over someone who actually wants you. Bc obsession isn’t born from love, it’s from uncertainty. It feeds on mixed signals, unmet needs & the tension between what they say… & what they do. It’s the gap. I want you to sit with that for a minute. Let it land.
It’s painful realizing the choices you’re making aren’t good for you, but you can’t stop ‘cause you’re stuck in the same pattern, trapped in a rut and it gives you a sense of security.
My friend just told that if I change my spam account to a public account I could actually become an influencer with the kind of effort I take and I am not recovering from it