When toxic people know they've done you wrong, they'll often become fixated with trying to destroy your reputation by spreading lies and slandering information about your private life. Victims don't create smear campaigns. Guilty people do.
Habits That Make You Look Weak;
1. Apologizing unnecessarily
2. Laughing at your own pain
3. Seeking constant validation
4. Avoiding eye contact
5. Speaking too softly
6. Saying yes to everything
7. Complaining without acting
8. Gossiping about others
9. Bragging about small wins
10. Lying to impress people
11. Shrinking in groups
12. Overthinking every decision
13. Copying others blindly
14. Backing down too easily
15. Talking over people
16. Reacting emotionally always
17. Blaming everyone else
18. Hiding your real opinion
19. Fishing for compliments
20. Canceling plans repeatedly
21. Being late always
22. Talking badly about exes
23. Needing last word always
24. Avoiding hard conversations
25. Pretending to agree always
26. Over explaining yourself
27. Begging for attention
28. Taking everything personally
29. Never finishing anything
30. Quitting when it gets hard
Let’s stop normalizing relationships that are out of place. Not everything that feels right is right. Some boundaries exist for a reason. Respect matters. Accountability matters. Do better.
Being a good person at work is great.
Being a doormat with a job title is not.
Integrity is powerful, but without boundaries it slowly turns into unpaid overtime and everyone's favorite reliable person.
Nobody has to help you. Nobody has to feel sorry for you. Nobody owes you anything. This is the mindset that literally carries me through life. I expect nothing from no one and I expect everything from MYSELF.