fall outs and the ending of relationships don’t define us as people.
it’s more about how we grow & evolve from every situation.
what’s the lesson?
are we repeating patterns?
these things happen throughout our lives.
heal, forgive, release, learn, move forward, repeat.
if the person really has real value & you feel ready, reach out.
otherwise,
preserve your energy and carry on.
i'm sorry to disappoint you, but you can't find healing from people who hurt you. you can't find healing when you keep staying in their presence.
healing requires disconnection from the people who caused you pain. +
I remember when Kanye West did 7 albums in 7 weeks & artists were pulling up to their album release parties heated lookin for him cos he switched up their whole albums and didn’t let them hear it till that night 😂